When Love Turns into a Ledger: Can You Forgive a Partner Who Uses Support Against You? β€” Soultrob
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πŸ’” ADVICE NEEDED

A woman had been married for five years.

She and her husband weren't rich, but they were happy. They built their home slowly, supported each other, and always promised that whatever happened, they would face it together.

Then the woman lost her job.

For the first few months, her husband was supportive.

But as time passed, he became frustrated.

Whenever they argued, he started saying:

β€œI'm the one feeding you now. At least appreciate me.”

She swallowed the pain because she knew he was under pressure.

Then she finally got another job.

She came home excited and told him:

β€œI got it! I can finally start contributing again.”

Instead of celebrating with her, he looked at her and said:

β€œGood. Maybe now you can start paying me back for everything I've spent on you.”

She froze.

She had never seen their marriage as a debt.

She remembered all the times she had supported him when he was struggling, but she had never kept a record.

That night, she asked him:

β€œWhen did we stop being husband and wife and start keeping score?”

He couldn't answer.

She loved him, but something inside her had changed.

πŸ’” If your partner helped you during your difficult season and later used it against you, would you forgive them?

Or does keeping score destroy the meaning of love?

What advice would you give her? πŸ‘‡
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