I’m Starting to Wonder If I’m the Problem in My Relationships…

I don’t know if anyone else has ever felt this way, but lately I’ve been questioning myself.

Every relationship I enter seems to start beautifully. The calls are exciting, the conversations never end, and I feel like I’ve finally found someone who understands me.

Then, slowly, something changes.

I start noticing little things. The replies become shorter. The effort feels one-sided. I begin asking questions, wanting reassurance, and overthinking every little change in their behavior.

And somehow, I always end up being called “too much.”

Too emotional. Too sensitive. Too needy. Too demanding.

So I started doing the opposite.

I stopped asking questions. I stopped complaining. I stopped saying when something hurt me. I started pretending I was okay because I didn’t want to push someone away.

But that didn’t work either.

Because now I’m wondering…

Is it possible that I’m choosing the wrong people, or am I actually the difficult one in relationships?

Sometimes I look at people in happy relationships and wonder what they know that I don’t.

Maybe love isn’t supposed to feel this confusing.

Or maybe I’ve just never experienced the kind of love where I don’t have to constantly wonder if I’m enough.

Be honest with me:

Have you ever started questioning yourself because of how someone treated you in a relationship?

👇 Tell me your experience. No judgment.