Crossing a Line of Trust: When Financial Support for an Ex Goes Too Far โ€” Soultrob
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๐Ÿ’” ADVICE NEEDED

A woman has been dating her boyfriend for four years. He has always been good to her, but recently she discovered something that changed everything.

Before they started dating, he had a child with another woman.

She knew about the child and accepted him completely.

But she recently discovered that he still sends his ex-girlfriend money every monthโ€”even when he struggles to pay his own bills.

When she asked why, he said:

โ€œShe's the mother of my child. I will always take care of her.โ€

The woman understands that he has responsibilities toward his child, but she doesn't understand why he needs to financially support the mother too.

Now she's wondering whether she's being jealous or whether her boyfriend is crossing a boundary.

What do you think?

Should she: โค๏ธ Trust him and accept the situation? ๐Ÿค” Ask him to set clearer boundaries? ๐Ÿšช Leave before marriage makes things more complicated?

If you were her, what advice would you give? ๐Ÿ‘‡
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  • ๐Ÿ™ˆ
    Anonymous
    The trust is gone
    • lillybaby
      lillybaby Echoing Echoing
      exactly ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
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