When Love Becomes Maintenance: Is It Worth Chasing? β€” Soultrob
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πŸ˜• Feeling Confused β€’ 1Β hour, 32Β minutes ago
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πŸ’” ADVICE NEEDED

A woman had been married for six years.

She loved her husband deeply, but over the years, she noticed that he had become emotionally distant.

He stopped complimenting her.

He stopped asking how her day went.

Even when she dressed up for him, he barely noticed.

She kept trying.

She cooked his favorite meals, planned little surprises, and constantly reminded him that she loved him.

But nothing changed.

One evening, she finally broke down and asked:

β€œWhat happened to us?”

Her husband looked at her and said:

β€œI don't know. Maybe I've just gotten used to you.”

Those words broke her heart.

She asked:

β€œSo after six years, loving me has become something you're tired of?”

He didn't answer.

A few months later, she stopped trying to get his attention.

She stopped begging for affection.

She started focusing on herself.

And suddenly, her husband noticed.

He began calling her again, taking her out, buying her gifts, and asking why she seemed distant.

One night, he said:

β€œI feel like I'm losing you.”

She smiled sadly and replied:

β€œYou didn't lose me. You just stopped appreciating me until I stopped chasing you.”

πŸ’” If someone only starts valuing you when you stop trying, is that loveβ€”or fear of losing control?

Would you stay and give the relationship another chance, or would you walk away?

What advice would you give her? πŸ‘‡
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