Former US Navy Chief Chase Hughes explains Why Your Childhood Still Controls You as an Adult. Want to watch more? Click here: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLM6CuLf0-OkSToV1jG3hsX5-Gj-Q69fRg&si=X8I5i_pRshiBsAhJ ---------------------------------------------------------- For full video visit: https://www.youtube.com/@DRVNclips/videos or visit their great channel https://www.youtube.com/@DRVNclips/featured Chase Hughes is a former US Navy Chief and leading behaviour expert and body language master. He is the bestselling author of books such as, ‘The Behavior Operations Manual: Neuro-Cognitive Intelligence’ and ‘The Ellipsis Manual: Analysis And Engineering of Human Behaviour’. ---------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe for more great content! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZT3MTncrBJVQ4m1B1M4C-Q ---------------------------------------------------------- Fair Use Disclaimer Copyright disclaimer under section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, commenting, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. Please contact me for any issues with this video, thanks ---------------------------------------------------------- #chasehughes
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I was trying to survive my childhood, not have friends.
Hot take: The past isn’t really behind us—it walks with us every day. Our experiences shape how we see the world, how we show up, and who we become. The real journey? Learning to heal and grow from those moments so we can step fully into who we were always meant to be.
The music in the background is there to create fear within you. Why?
Thank you sir ,you have a different way of expressing the trauma in childhood
My Dad was always cheating or saying he was leaving and my grandpa left my grandma for some old girlfriend and it's followed me in all my relationships unfortunately, now I'm trying to understand why my insecurities are affecting my current behaviors and trying to change those behaviors
"To truly see someone’s character, watch how they treat those they don’t like."
I think I learned to spend the less time possible at home, and when there, be in my room, away from my abusive mom. I learned to recognize her footsteps... if her feet pounded hard and fast, I was doomed.
Feeling safe? I remember walking to school, up a hill with cars parked on both sides& i remember this weird man suddenly popping out of no where, trying to converse with me. I knew instinctively to dart away & walk away but the lingering fear persisted abt strange men but that was what kept me safe.
I was always to be found ( if you could) up a tree. Away from everything. Safe in its branches. I still walk in the woods daily. They give me a real sense of security and I feel myself expand.
I was friends with who was easy to be friends with. I didn’t earn rewards. And I learned how to hide very well. Now, I still am friends with whoever is easy to get along with, and I don’t consider rewards or recognition because I don’t trust it. I still hide as an adult.
I smoked cigarettes, weed and drank alcohol with the teens who raised me while my mom was out partying and my dad was long gone with his new wife.
For me 8-9 yo I knew everything I do will be destroyed . I was someone whose words were meaningless. I had to eat 2 lunches a day 1 normal that I liked at a close friend the second was at my biological mom usually food I didn't like or really hated . Everything I had to hide or lie to my mom the most normal thing . To feel safe ,to avoid being bitten up I walked out of my parents home . I could never have anishative if my own . I was flexible with friends but more submissive at home in order not to be bitten up at home by mom . Agreeable , cooperating with my older brother who sometimes protected me he took my mom hitting for me .Yet he was & is very controlling which caused a lot of damage in my life . I was never allowed to make my own decisions about nothing . I never had support or backing about anything .
my dear daughter was super happy and put going until her mother chose to have an affair and get into drugs, and force my children into that environment and the courts etc. All I can do is get as much support for my own mental health and well being and do the best I can to be supportive and connected to my daughter and son. Narcissistic abuse is very real . Thanks for your work and insights Chase.
The piano is irritating and takes from the message.
Oh boy, how I'd love to have a conversation with this man and "pick" his brain 😊
When I was young , I was a picky eater , but at a friends house I ate everything even peas bc I wanted to be invited back over .😅
No place was ever safe. Not home not school… I don’t remember 8 or 9. Dragged around by my hair by my mom, beat, soap shoved into my mouth, bite hard ripped it out and shoved me back in my room. Unable to wash it out That happened around 14-16? Idk
I appreciate your work.
I used to buy my class mates, lollies when i was 8yrs old. Untill i worked out they only wanted lollies, and they weren't my friends
I was angry, lonely, antisocial and very independent. I'm not sure what to do with that as an adult though. Life has presented it's social challenges for me, for sure.