Thanks 🙏 I was wondering why I don’t cry even in loss of loved ones it takes along time for me to finally cry months or weeks not because I don’t care but I actually think it’s because I do care so much I just can’t handle anymore hurt and in order to keep me safe from that feeling I think my brain try’s to avoid it all together and replace it with basic logic like if someone passed I say that’s ok it’s part of life we will all go anyway and my generation is next in line no reason to be upset about what I can not change and I really enjoyed that person to the fullest while they were here I’m not sure if even I truly believe what my brain try’s to train me into being because I notice I have found myself in a more than a decades worth of time that I let no new person in my life I do not have interests in new friends or new relationships I am just fine with the small bunch I have of less than ten people i talk to or interact with and I am complacent and comfortable in this but I do wonder to myself what if I found a good person would I allow them to be my friend or would I over observe them to the point they were no longer a safe choice.? Is this really a safe place I have made myself or place I have created due to fear only telling myself it is safe while having no real proof that one is safer than the next.??
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liesalangern861 month ago
the first one is very true.. i had a friend who always laughed at the weirdest things to the point he got scolded for them.. turns out he had abusive parents growing up..
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charles_renard1 month, 3 weeks ago
Ok
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nehaganesh9762 months ago
Sounds like a judgemental asshole if i'm being honest. Is this why it's a short? Just for content? This is a deep, serious issue you can't explain in a minute or less.
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trinidad_apodaca2 months ago
The reason I can't cry is because when I was younger I'd get yelled at and they'd pull the "Stop crying before I give you a reason to cry" Or they'd say "You have no reason to cry unless you're severely bleeding so start smiling"
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maytemarroquín7192 months, 1 week ago
I don’t cry not because I’m weak because of the things and trauma I’ve been through
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meghana_bobal2 months, 2 weeks ago
Why the hell did you expose me in a second 💔
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lauragallegos9372 months, 3 weeks ago
I laugh too much and i never cry
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nicholas_bell2 months, 3 weeks ago
Yes, i also can't cry easily, due to this i am thinking that what us happing to me and tried to cry
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alix_legendre3 months, 2 weeks ago
when i start to cry i literally cannot stop. i can cry on command, fake cry and i do really cry easily.
jamesstream973 months, 2 weeks ago
You didn't read ppl.. I understand and feel everyone but I don't cry because I don't want to show people my weakness or they'll think I'm weak
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brendanhollow273 months, 3 weeks ago
That was personal at the start.
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ross.craig3 months, 4 weeks ago
😂
alexislopez2634 months, 2 weeks ago
But the thing is with reading people if you dp this there is np guarantee that your reading right at all times
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garry.hayes4 months, 2 weeks ago
yeah Most people just fake smile or laugh
christine_woods4 months, 2 weeks ago
“The narration style is unsettling. Well done.”
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courtneyatlas824 months, 3 weeks ago
Well damn a feel a lil called out 😂
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juancarlos.rolón4 months, 4 weeks ago
Yo, you're describing me
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joanne.rose5 months ago
I don't cry in public really when others are crying like in a funeral. Mine stems from previous trauma and grief. On my adopted dad's (unofficial) funeral, I didn't cry once at the funeral. I had previous bullying and loss of my biological father that stops me from doing that
But like men don’t cry 😭😭😭😭 no hate to yall btw
Thanks 🙏 I was wondering why I don’t cry even in loss of loved ones it takes along time for me to finally cry months or weeks not because I don’t care but I actually think it’s because I do care so much I just can’t handle anymore hurt and in order to keep me safe from that feeling I think my brain try’s to avoid it all together and replace it with basic logic like if someone passed I say that’s ok it’s part of life we will all go anyway and my generation is next in line no reason to be upset about what I can not change and I really enjoyed that person to the fullest while they were here I’m not sure if even I truly believe what my brain try’s to train me into being because I notice I have found myself in a more than a decades worth of time that I let no new person in my life I do not have interests in new friends or new relationships I am just fine with the small bunch I have of less than ten people i talk to or interact with and I am complacent and comfortable in this but I do wonder to myself what if I found a good person would I allow them to be my friend or would I over observe them to the point they were no longer a safe choice.? Is this really a safe place I have made myself or place I have created due to fear only telling myself it is safe while having no real proof that one is safer than the next.??
the first one is very true.. i had a friend who always laughed at the weirdest things to the point he got scolded for them.. turns out he had abusive parents growing up..
Ok
Sounds like a judgemental asshole if i'm being honest. Is this why it's a short? Just for content? This is a deep, serious issue you can't explain in a minute or less.
The reason I can't cry is because when I was younger I'd get yelled at and they'd pull the "Stop crying before I give you a reason to cry" Or they'd say "You have no reason to cry unless you're severely bleeding so start smiling"
I don’t cry not because I’m weak because of the things and trauma I’ve been through
Why the hell did you expose me in a second 💔
I laugh too much and i never cry
Yes, i also can't cry easily, due to this i am thinking that what us happing to me and tried to cry
when i start to cry i literally cannot stop. i can cry on command, fake cry and i do really cry easily.
You didn't read ppl.. I understand and feel everyone but I don't cry because I don't want to show people my weakness or they'll think I'm weak
That was personal at the start.
😂
But the thing is with reading people if you dp this there is np guarantee that your reading right at all times
yeah Most people just fake smile or laugh
“The narration style is unsettling. Well done.”
Well damn a feel a lil called out 😂
Yo, you're describing me
I don't cry in public really when others are crying like in a funeral. Mine stems from previous trauma and grief. On my adopted dad's (unofficial) funeral, I didn't cry once at the funeral. I had previous bullying and loss of my biological father that stops me from doing that