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It is amazing how childhood trauma effects our adult mind set. Thank you Chase
The bent tree is the best analogy. Chase has great communication skills. I am so glad he is now teaching us.
That's a really good example. Noticing the why.
I hate the way I see my dads nasty manner in myself sometimes, I didn’t even like him or was close to him. It upsets me and I’m a woman of 64, still learning everyday
Wow this is the best explanation of this I've ever heard
Yes, Seek first to understand than to be understood.
So true. For me understanding helps me be more compassionate.
Thanks for that great analogy Chase. Our childhoods stay with us forever.
It’s amazing how alert he is , in every single situation, learning from anything and anywhere, it amazes me how a palm tree , 🌴 through his vision, can provide such a powerful intellectual insight , about our human behavior. Thanks Chase( from São Paulo ) !! Iam organizing myself to study with you!! Sending my love , respect and my uttermost admiration. Bye now .
When I started working in a memory care unit, I got SO interested in the brain and how it functions. I love psychology and human behavior. Chase is amazing at what he knows and does. I wish I could ask him a million and one questions. I feel a couple hours of questions would be equivalent to years of schooling.
What a great way to look at human behaviors through the lens of the bending palm tree .everyone here is simply just trying to survive the world they are planted in. 💕
That may be the most concise, relatable, and accurate definition I’ve ever heard! Well done!
A really observant definition. Thanks 🙏
Yours is the only short I'll watch. Thanks, Chase!
Yes!! These are the most difficult habits to break within ones self. What we do as children as a way to survive whatever it is we are suffering through, we take it into adulthood. In my case, my childlike survival skills/tools did not benefit me once as an adult. It did the opposite which created more confusion and unnecessary suffering.
Amazing description and explanation. Gosh, you're good at this.
🇬🇧 This is so demonstrated in members of my own family. Many thanks for the illumination.
Such a compassionate perspective
Parental abandonment made me an independent adult… but I still have a hard time trusting people
I love Chase’s analogy here. It resonates totally for me. I know, when I was taking a serious hit as a young girl being attacked and raped that my Psyche was deeply affected and to survive it bent and that bend has never gone away. But in his analogy, the tree survived and thrived just like a tree that has grown around a rock. You can see all the roots around that rock but it survived and took the form of that rock. I’ve seen this before and had the same realisation as what Chase is explaining here. We survive and grow anyway 🕊️🩵🙏🏽