In this segment, Alison Armstrong, relationship expert discusses the critical importance of avoiding conflict between a man's needs and his integrity. She explores examples where this balance is challenged, such as in the context of sexual intimacy within a relationship or the demands of balancing work and home responsibilities. Understanding these dynamics is key to fostering healthy relationships and personal growth within marriage problems and dating advice scenarios. #alisonarmstrong #psychology #coupleadvice #couplepsychology #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #marriageadvice #psychologyfacts #psychologyofmen #humanbehavior #alisonarmstrong #shorts #motivation #inspiration #love #selfimprovement
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I wonder how many men experience this but don't dare post their anger.
I absolutely agree. sex should never be tied to reward or punishment.
We need more women like her. We want women like her to be widely heard!!
Why is that woman reacting like someone is swinging a gun in her face?
Ask yourself - Did you behave this way when he was just your boyfriend? If the answer is no, you are punishing him for making the mistake of committing to you. That would make anyone angry.
Doing a reward system for sex implies it's only for him and not for her , that's not a healthy relationship.
100% true. I lived for 40 years with a woman who did exactly that. Now I'm 71 and free at last
It does. She’s right. She really gets it- and that’s so rare.
Too bad 156 MILLION women in America have never heard this message.
Talking about men like we're creatures or objects. Men are people. Imagine that.
I am speaking for me personally. There is a big difference between sex and making love, if neither party is feeling loved the sex will fall off. Serving each other is so important in my opinion. You focus on your partner and their needs and do what you can to fill them and vise versa. The love making will naturally come and it will be as passionate as ever.
It should never be a transaction a marriage is shared it's becoming one. It's about going through when it gets hard it's about letting yourself be molded with each other despite the things that try to pull you apart.
How this isn't just common sense blows my fucking mind.
That statement ought to be taught in every Precana session
The really scummy thing is, some women hear this and instead of using it to become better, as a partner that TRULY is equal and loves her mate, and cares for him, would do... instead they just use it As a tool to help them be more manipulative.
You can shorten that even further. "Never CAUSE Conflict"
Id rather stay single than go through that again, not worth it, it destroys your soul until yku are a shell. That looks like an ATM.
I like how the host like ; who cares what they like 😂!!
Please cc this to all women ...... Smashing thanks !!
Yes, and we work very hard to explain and teach this to our loved women but they either wont get it or get bored or want more since everything is never enough. It's pretty grim..