"This is who I am. Farewell, Mother Dear." 💔 Welcome back to the channel. Today we are looking at a deeply emotional flashback sequence from POSE Season 3, Episode 3. We’ve always known Elektra as the fierce, untouchable matriarch of the ballroom scene, but this powerful episode takes us back to the very beginning. Let’s break down the devastating night she lost her biological home but completely claimed her true identity. The scene takes place in the agonizingly quiet hours of 5:00 AM, where a domestic confrontation forever alters a young woman's path. The Sideways Night: It’s five in the morning, and the night has dissolved into chaos. Someone is missing their keys, voices are raised, and a young Elektra is being urged by an acquaintance to leave and return for her things tomorrow. 🗝️🕒 The Mother's Shadow: Elektra hesitates, stating she absolutely cannot return to her mother's house looking the way she does. When told her mother is likely asleep, Elektra delivers a chilling reality check: whoever thinks that has clearly never crossed paths with Ms. Tasha Jackson (Nika King). 🚪 The Confrontation: Right on cue, Ms. Tasha Jackson appears in the doorway. The atmosphere turns freezing cold. Speaking with deliberate, formal venom, she reminds Elektra that her name is on the deed of the house, and demands to know how her child has the audacity to walk through the front door wearing a dress. 👗🏡 The Stand for Identity: The mother brings up their past arguments, using outdated, hurtful terminology to dismiss her child's identity. Elektra calmly and quietly corrects her, stating with absolute certainty: she is not a cross-dresser, she is not a man—she is a woman. 🏳️⚧️✨ The Breaking Point: Enraged, the mother demands Elektra take the dress off immediately. Elektra refuses. The argument turns physical as her mother reaches out to force the issue. Elektra breaks away, draws herself up to her full height, and boldly claims her name for the first time: "My name is Elektra." The Final Rejection: Stunned into silence, the mother cold-bloodedly tells her to get out of the house. For a split second, the fierce armor cracks. The word "Mommy" slips out from Elektra—a raw, instinctive cry from the vulnerable kid underneath, begging her to wait. But the mother doesn't flinch. 😭💔 The Regal Exit: Realizing there is no turning back, Elektra straightens her spine, looks her mother dead in the eye, and says plainly: "This is who I am. Farewell, Mother Dear." With immense dignity, she turns her back on the rejection and walks out into her future. This sequence is an essential piece of television because it honors the painful reality of so many LGBTQ+ youth who had to face rejection to find their freedom. It shows that Elektra's legendary sharpness wasn't just born out of vanity—it was forged in the fire of survival. Did this flashback change the way you look at Elektra’s character in the later seasons? 👑😭 Dominique Jackson’s performance here deserves every award. Let’s share our thoughts and love for this incredible character in the comments below. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that notification bell for more deep dives into television's most groundbreaking stories! 👇✨ #PoseFX #ElektraWintour #DominiqueJackson #PoseSeason3 #TransGenderHistory #BallroomCulture #TVRecap #LGBTQStorytelling #NikaKing #TheTrunk #ChosenFamily #IconicScenes #DramaSeries #TelevisionMasterpiece
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HOW could you treat your child like that
knowing why elektra’s mother treated her like that makes this so much more sad. emotional incest is so disgusting.
I HATE how her friend brushed off the severity of the situation, I need my friend to be equally freaked out lmaoo
Ironically she snatched her wig off to prove her point but it made Elektra and her mother look even more similar, she wanted to expose a son but the look in the mirror is of a mother and daughter
Now I understand why Elecktra acts the way she does. So sad. Ripping off someone's clothing to prove a point is so dehumanizing.
Elektra’s mother was always nuts, though they tried to humanize her.
Toxic masculinity coming from a central female figure in one’s life is more than toxic. It is cancerous. I hated this woman the first time I saw her in this and her reasoning and back story made me loathe people like her. They hate themselves and THEIR CHOICES IN LIFE , so much that they groom their children into tools to mitigate their mistakes and judge their children for not wanting to be those tools. Props to the actress who portrayed the mother. She was so believable!!
Crying because as a mother I want to square up with that mutha!
Elektra's mom is so mean😥
As a parent either you love your child or you don’t . If what your child is doing isn’t hurting someone else then let them be who they are …
Same thing happened to me accept the women clothing part. I was asked about being gay and I told my step grandmother that I was in fact gay a year after my grandfather passed away and I was stuck with living in his home with her, at 16 she threw my clothes and all of my belongings out in the yard the same home that I was born and raised in before he even married her I was 3 1/2, but didn’t argue with her or yell and to wake up the whole block, I gathered my stuff wiped my tears and walked away and never returned. I lived in the back of school gym my senior year in high school, stayed with friends here and there pretending that I was tired of my grandmother and I needed space and never told anyone I was thrown out not even the authorities, I begin to make tshirts and personalized stuff different people around town then got a job at Winn Dixie and I was able to do all the final things that seniors so such as prom , class trip and graduation and although she didn’t help me with anything I still gave her a graduation ticket to show her that without her I was still gonna succeed she came and saw me walk across the stage in the top 10% of my graduating class of 300, she stood and waited on me to come out while everyone else parents congratulated there kids and hug and took pictures, I walked passed her like she was a complete stranger because my respect for her was over I moved in silence, fast forward went off to college and had someone else’s parents take me on the tour and orientation , haven’t spoke or heard from my grandmother again and I’ve never went back to my small town, but the last thing I was told the same house she threw me out of she was thrown out of and her stuff was thrown side the road she had a stroke and was confined to a wheelchair homeless in the same town I was homeless in, and she has brothers, sisters and all sorts of family and had a biological son, everyone reached out to me and politely said she told me to get out of her life and her wish was my command… I love her as a person but I will never sit at a table with her or anyone else and who turned there backs on me just because of who I am as a person, fool me once there’s no 2, or 3 times… I wish her the best and when she passes away or if I Pass away I can truly say im completely content that I did the best I could with whatever I was born into, I’m not perfect but i am worthy of love and respect from the same person I loved and respected, I send her her family money to give to her and gifts for her bday but I told them to not say it’s from me, and that they haven’t seen or heard from me since that day which was over 17 years ago..
Then you wonder why the children hate you.
I genuinely stopped this once she started tearing her clothes off, I couldnt watch it. As a mother, the thought of doing this to my babies, makes me sick to my stomach. I just couldn't. I dont care what orientation they are, as long as they are happy, and the person they love, loves then and makes them happy. If my boys wanna wear dresses, wear dresses. Ill be in the front row supporting them, hyping them up. Ill be their number 1 supporter, cos thats what you do as a mother. You support your babies being happy, you raise them up! In saying that, the woman acting as the mother in this show, did her job well, and i cant imagine the amguish and emotional battle she would have had going on in her heart, while playing this role.
This is based on the story Pepper Labeija told in Paris is Burning imo
to all the people defending the mom i pray to god you never have children. no child should ever have the misfortune to be subjected to a parent like you. if you actually watched the show you’d know all the twisted incestual reasons she wanted a “manly son”, this is a CLEAR representation of the hypocrisy and toxicity behind religious based prejudices, and yet it still went WAYYY over some of yalls heads😭🙏
They are both fantastic actresses. They both played their roles very well. Bravo for the acting in this scene. Very emotional and intense mom and daughter scene. " He" that was REALLY a SHE had to assert herself. The chemistry between these two in these two intense scenes was strong. In their acting roles you could feel the resentment , anger and sadness practically exuding off of the screen. The woman that played Elektra went deep inside of her self to bring those tears out on the screen. Somewhere in her life's journey she had to become " that woman". Love the show! Love the cast! ❤
How could you treat your child like this!!? Wow smh
That's not a way to treat a child just because they're different
Religion. Sowing hatred since thousands of years.
When the love for your child is connected to their gender then it's you with a problem