How to WIN The Breakup (Men’s Edition)

when sadness over a break up turns into motivation, self love, happiness. you know you've won

Finding the ebook Women Magic Lure by Calvin Reed should be your top priority, even if it's the last thing you do in life.

Leave, break all communications, and never look back. Never place your happiness in someone that only lives by feelings, emotions, and hormones.

Do not chase 2.don’t replace ,heal and work on yourself 3.silence is power 4.level up , boss up and your energy will speak for itself. This is for men and women! Stay blessed

I always wanted to be that divine feminine magnetic woman. 🌹 For years I thought it meant trying harder, looking better, doing more… until I found Woman He Can't Unsee by Kayla Dravert. This book flipped everything I believed about femininity and showed me how true power comes from presence, not effort. If you’ve been craving that inner shift, this is the book that will awaken it. ✨

I don’t think there’s a win in a breakup where the relationship had any meaning. You can make yourself better, heal, and remember to be grateful

Woke up, did my skincare, read a chapter of "Woman He Can't Unsee" book, journaled. I would recommend every girl to read it. This book has some serious secrets. It’s crazy how little we know about ourselves.

I wasn't expecting this beautiful insight: "It's immoral of you to take your broken spirit and infect someone else with it." Goes for both sexes!

If she breaks up with you, it’s simple. “I wish this wasn’t the case, but I understand. I’ve really enjoyed the time we’ve had together. I wish you the best!” After that, you leave or ask her to leave and be done with it. You can take time to grieve later. There’s no need for closure or more answers. You’ll get those as you reflect on the relationship. Walk away with your head held high, and don’t contact her ever again

I have never, not once, contacted my Ex’s after we broke up. I didn’t want anything to do with them and that was it.

Just don't date. Too many women are playing too many games. Too many women are too addicted to validation from strangers online.

I'm here to tell every one of you. Hit the gym. Do some therapy. Refrain from drugs and alcohol. Meet new people. 6 months later you WILL win.

A college GF broke up with me. I liked her and didn't see it coming, so it was hard. But I just said "I understand", didn't call or text her, made sure to stay away, etc. I still had a box of her stuff. A month or so later, she texts me for the box and says we should meet up for coffee and I can give it to her. I replied "No, I'll mail it to you." Again, she suggests we meet up and I give her the box. Again: "Thanks for the offer but no, I will mail it to you." And I did. She texted to confirm she got it and that was the last time we ever spoke. The point? It felt GREAT to nicely turn down the request to meet up. I did not want to see her. I knew it would hurt. It felt good to take control of my own needs and mail it to her instead. And that was the moment that the pain of the breakup started fading away.

Guys - i’m a well-respected man and was in a marriage for 22 yrs with the reincarnation of satan and SHE bashed me to the public I never ever bashed her. Women who do this especially when they have 2 beautiful children, are mentally I’ll and/or have unresolved childhood issues with men.

Women will break up with you over the absolute stupidest of things possible. I have learned one thing in my life as a 22 year old now- never ever trust a woman’s word, because they will one day possibly throw it right in your face and walk away after promising everything. I was “the world” to the previous girl I was with, I was “her heart, her lungs, her soul” and the very next day I was worth literally nothing to her. What did I do to cause this great change in attitude? I said “I don’t know if we can do another year of long distance,” when we were already planning on her coming over within a month’s time. I quote- “I lost all love for you when you said that.” That’s what she said. 3 years of relationship building and telling I love you’s every single day to then nothing. Absolutely nothing. Planning our lives together, me wanting to provide for both of us. Do not EVER trust what a woman says with her emotions. Love for a woman is a convenience, and will be thrown away when it becomes inconvenient.

Don't revenge, don't try to get even. Just leave, and go forward in your life...

An ex is an ex for a reason, never go back, don’t allow them to create drama and BS, and don’t create drama and BS. Don’t bother with them unless it’s something important like a death or money owed.

Beautiful video. Every morning I wake, hoping it was only a bad dream but reality strikes again: he’s gone. No matter how many times I tell myself to move forward, my heart clings to the past. If only I could turn back time, hold him a little tighter, love him a little longer. Where in this world could I find him again?

My advice? Show no emotion whatsoever in the breakup. Simply say okay and move on. No backing out, no second chances. Stop everything, cut off all contact, and don’t giver her so much as a second thought. If she says she wants a breakup, then give it to her. This way, not only do you keep your dignity intact, you’ll have her second guessing her choice. Women are overly-emotional, highly illogical creatures, and many times, if they want a breakup, they’ll seek validation for their decision through some sort of emotional response on your part. If you get angry with her, that validates her choice. If you get sad, that validates her choice. If you beg her to stay, that validates her choice. Show no emotion. Conduct yourself with a bit of stoicism. You’ll keep your dignity while simultaneously depriving her of validation.

You end it with class because that is what kind of man you are,Thanks for the memories.