How to detach from people and situations

"YOU GET ATTACHED TO A FALSE REALITY OF HAPPINESS." this hits me very hard.

the “get a life” part really gave me a reality check. it’s such a simple piece of advice but it is so true, sometimes when we get attached we open up so much space in our day to day lives to constantly talk to them. and then when they arent constantly talking like before, youre left with all this space you made in your day to day routine. never let someone change the original life/routine you had before you met them!!

I'm honestly shocked because of how good this video is and how much it's taught me. Thank you.

when u really get into these two mindsets "it is what it is" & "there is always someone or something better for me when it comes about ending things",your life really gets better. Edited: I didnt know that this has so many likes and some people are telling me that this is narcissistic but the truth is u have to work thru some things with ur someone but when they do hurt u intentionally you dont have to hold onto them anymore.I am not narcissistic I just got broken up by someone and im hurt rn as i should be but you have to let go of things which are not meant to be with you & there really are good people that u havent even met on this earth 🤍

"The love that you're searching for outside is already within you" I will never forget this

Liz sure is an intelligent woman with high moral standards. Each advice she gives is noteworthy.

Most of us are here because of someone’s son huh

the 'stop creating fantasies' part had me reflecting all of my relations and friendships. the way I had created fantasies about everyone and when they didn't meet the expectations, I got hurt and it was difficult to see that it was me who gave them that false image and not them who hurt me

I feel like I’m at the point that I need to watch this everyday to remind myself

That line '' If God was done with you, you would not be alive'' 🥺🧿

I'm going to listen to this everyday until it's engraved in my mind fr

Liz kick started my self improvement journey. I’ll never be able to explain how much I respect you in words. I’ve changed my mindset because of you. Let’s go and get that knowledge and level up girls!

“YOU THINK YOU CANNOT HAVE MORE, THAT IS THE ISSUE” that seriously hurt in the chest

To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt , exit your mind. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life ❤

Give this woman an award for saving us and for making us loving ourselves ❤️

Timestamps 👀: 1:32 - Realise you are operating from your ego 5:55 - Everyone in your life has a purpose 8:58 - Stop creating fantasies 9:33 - Have an "It is what it is." mindset 10:57 - Get a life 12:23 - Realise that you're operating from a lack mindset 14:07 - What is FOMO? 16:04 - You will never arrive to happiness 17:54 - Realise you will never leave you

I have a really bad habit of romanticizing everything and everyone. Then get disappointed when they do not meet my standards. This is something that I just realized. This year, I plan on operating from an abundant mindset and stop selling myself so short! I always shortchange myself for others and always get the bad end of the deal. This year will be a whole 180! Thanks Liz!

I finally understood. I became sick because I was way too attached to a fantasy I created in my head about who he should have been, what we should have become. It made me truly ill, physically, mentally, emotionally. And I can finally let go. I can go no contact. I can heal. This video was a happy slap on my face to know that I am not special, many people go through this, and I can change my situation.

It's insane how much anxiety she takes away and how good I feel everytime after I watched a video of hers, she just speaks such blunt facts so accurate and so much on point it's insane

as an overly emotional person and as a person who literally loves people unconditionally this was so important because I am completely sick and tired of people constantly taking advantage of my loyalty and love, thank you liz you literally are an angel edit: WHEN DID THIS GET SO MANY LIKES LMAOO but anyways to all the beautiful angels and amazing human beings who related to this, I just want to say that I'm so proud of you I'm so happy you came this far and did not decide to give up, and it shows that you are trying to do smth better for yourself (as you're watching the queen liz), so don't give up beautiful you got this and all of you strong and amazing individuals have my prayers <3