My Dad Called Me, “The Weight Everyone Has To Carry,” I Said Nothing… Reddit Relationship Stories -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My Dad Called Me, “The Weight Everyone Has To Carry,” I Said Nothing And Left Overnight. Funny How, Once The “Weight” Was Gone, The Entire Family Completely Drowned In Debts And Unpaid Bills. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My father raised a glass at dinner, praised my successful brother and sister… then laughed and called me “dead weight” in front of the whole family. Everyone stayed silent like it was normal. What they forgot was that years earlier, when my dad lost his job and we were about to lose the house, I was the one secretly paying the mortgage while building my career in animation... #redditstories #askreddit #redditfamily #redditstories
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I can relate to being the odd one out in your family. I'm the odd one out in my family, too.
Gotta stop seeking validation. Sounds very pathetic. Give on your own terms and stop enabling. Zero sympathy. Stop going over there to accept disrespect. Move on your own terms and have your own life.
If it was me when the video stopped I would have just said what nothing shity to say about me now
In so many stories like this one, revenge is looked at as being a bad thing, it’s not. Revenge is a natural consequence of treating people poorly and expecting them to just accept it. A life lesson here, just treat everyone how you would want to be treated, whether family or complete strangers
Parents really be creating emotional damage then acting confused later 😭
I kept waiting for you to get the academy award
If they're going to pull THAT kind of shit, break it off in them. Remind them at EVERY family gathering. Remind your big strong dad that the only reason he wasn't homeless in 2009 was his dead-weight son. If he gets mad, ask if senility is setting in early.
No no, he's still a bad father and the mother is a bad mother. Good parents can keep a family together honor loving and respecting their children. These two didn't and raised 2 other terrible people
Sometimes you have to walk away from family, just go no contact. Sometimes we try to hard to hold onto something that was never there.
Messing with someone like this is like messing with a comedian, giving them ammunition to go for the throat. Could have spun villains with your sisters attitude and things she said imagine her kids watching a villain on TV say the things she said
How do these people not know is paying the mortgage and other expenses?
Listening from the dungeon of the kingdom of trumpistan
Grown up, stop hanging on to dead weight, I the energy to sit and think about childhood, life is to short to live in the past,
Who save this crap, who, I help my family, they made angry, but a tap, please grow up stop talking, you worse then you hold family,
You petty, you grow man act like it, this sound so childless, grow man, who could be proud of themselves unless they hurt someone, you reveal, that was ugly, need feel good by people being hurt, grow up, stop talking, please this sounds so petty,
Stop listening, please is very vindictive person, nosey around because nobody gave you credit, grown up, you worse than your hold family, so what pay some bills, so did I went in highschool , even mad I did keep score, that call you weird, keep tab, and recipe, you are grown up, let go get girlfriend, build a family, do something besides trying see how you can destroy a mess family,