Repost @LisaBilyeu : He’s NOT ignoring you… read this 😳 You think he heard you… You think he’s choosing not to respond… You think it’s disrespect. But what if that’s not true at all? 🤯 Men’s brains are wired for ONE thing at a time. Locked in. Focused. Everything else? Gone. I was talking to Alison Armstrong about this and it will change how you see men FOREVER… When he’s focused, he’s not filtering you out… He literally doesn’t register anything outside the “target.” 🎯 Like a hunter. One goal. Nothing else exists. And meanwhile… You’re over here thinking: “He’s ignoring me.” “He doesn’t care.” “He’s disrespecting me.” 💥 That misunderstanding? That’s what starts the fight. So before you react… Ask yourself: Is he ignoring me… or is he just wired differently? Tag someone who NEEDS to hear this #love
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If you want something done, tell your man and he'll do it as a gift to you. What he won't do is prioritize it over the tasks he deems vitally important for survival. His nature is to protect and provide, and he will be held accountable for his failures in these areas. Don't ask him to override his programming when you bear no responsibility for the outcomes.
"What if we're just... different?" GROUND BREAKING ANALYSIS, Ladies. Ground breaking analysis.
If a man says he's gonna do something, he's gonna do it. There's no need to remind him every six months.
Well, in all fairness, the truth is that sometimes we are ignoring you. Not most of the time, but sometimes.🤣🤣🤣
And they wonder why we just don't care about anything anymore.
"What if we're just different? ".... BLASPHEMY!😂
So much of her good advice boils down to "don't jump to anger and be mean about each other's differences. Be curious, kind and honour those differences, instead"
The explanation of "Male Refrigerator Syndrome" ...At Last - Validated!
This is legitimately one of the most important videos on the internet.
LITERALY a super power if used correctly. That hyper laser focus on a single target is true and can be so destructive if directed at the wrong thing.
Now I'll look at the 2nd and 3rd raw, my wife sends her thanks
Cat brain: Target acquired... Stuck on focus... ignore everything else.
The “what if we’re just different?” Yeah more need to hear that
"There's a deer,,,, is there a better deer behind?" That's gold right there. That's how men shop. I need shorts, these are shorts, done . Except maybe when its a fishing rod or baseball bat or circular saw. Those need SERIOUS consideration.😂
Men think in boxes. When they are in a ‘box’ it’s difficult to gain their attention until they are out of that box. I learned this early on and my relationship with my husband was amazing.
💯 When you hunt nothing else exists in that moment
God i love women that acruwlly try to understand men instead of judging us based on the standards they have for themselves that apply to them moreso than us. My wife works with caretakers of elderly and has had to do a lot of secondary education on human behavior. Shes had so many aha moments about why im the way i am. Many of these aha moments have made our "marraige" much stronger. Women dont normally need to understand men to attract a partner to the degree men do and so mqny put very little thought into mens psychology.
Ladies, be concise and have great purpose with your words. If you expect us to decifer your code, forget about it. Tell us what you need and we will take it from there.
If they love each other , they'll talk about this stuff and adapt. It happens all the time🎉
I don't think that is the case. I will move things around in the fridge to get the whole picture. I don't know if I have always been that way or if it is military training that still exists within me. Situational awareness is a great thing to have.