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I'm Terrified of Change (Here's What I'm Doing About It)

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A sunny couple of days with a catch up in the garden, some new items to unbox from Sézane, bringing out the slushie machine for summer and talking about how I deal with change. Please check the bottom of the this description box for info on ads, affiliate links and gifted items. Click 'SHOW MORE' below I Wore… + Primark 'Pickles' t-shirt + Nobody's Child green striped trousers https://go.shopmy.us/p-55410922 (similar) I Bought… + Sézane green sleeveless top https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411047 + Sézane green trousers https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411060 + Sézane striped jeans https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411080 + Personalised cap https://www.sayitwiththreadr.com/ I Mentioned… + Oliver Bonas red striped jeans https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411290 + Beauty Pie Supercheek Liquid Blush* https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411459 + Lisa Eldridge Velatura Lip and Cheek Stick* https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411486 + Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk Lip Balm https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411536 + Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk Medium Lip Balm https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411554 + Embryolisse Lip Crayon + Westman Atelier HydroBalm Lip Tint https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411804 + Vieve Bounce Balm* https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411847 + Vieve Silhouette Stick* https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411903 + Merit Flush Balm https://go.shopmy.us/p-28895453 + Vieve 117 Foundation Brush* https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411967 + Vieve Invisiveil Setting Spray* https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411975 + Clinique Almost Lipstick* https://go.shopmy.us/p-55411998 + Ninja Slushie* https://go.shopmy.us/p-55412030 ------------------------------------------------------- Any links that are ‘liketk.it' or ‘amzn.to’ or 'apparl' are ad-affiliate links. If you purchase something using one of these links, I make a small percentage from that sale. This doesn't affect my opinions. Thanks for your support. ad-PR Gifts that are mentioned within the video are marked with * ad-PR Discounted items are marked with ** Often items are sent to me for free and the brands that send these know that I cannot guarantee them specific coverage. If I don't like an item I have been sent for free I very often just won't mention it, so please know you can still trust my opinion even on gifted items. Any paid for advertisements I do, I will mark the thumbnail with AD and write it in the top and bottom of this description box. An AD means I have been paid by a brand to talk specifically about a product or service. I only work with brands I genuinely like and would recommend - watch this video on how I work with brands http://lpebbles.uk/PngWtj FIND ME: Subscribe - http://bit.ly/10dYuIf Instagram - http://instagram.com/lilypebbles Tik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lilypebbles Disclaimer: This video is not an advertisement. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------­----------------- How to contact me: [email protected]

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justin_brown 4 weeks, 2 days ago

you need to try.. if you haven’t “Unearthed Spanish Style Pickles” omg I’m obsessed with pickles 🥒 and I can’t stop eating these.

scottarc94
scottarc94 1 month ago

❤❤❤

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maríacristina_deanda 1 month ago

In Latvia we eat normal meal for lunch. To me it always has been fascinating that people in uk eat such a small meal. Like, sandwich. Not enough food for me 😆

maanaszachariah60
maanaszachariah60 1 month ago

Just thought of the Seth Rogen movie about pickles which is titled An American Pickle. It is a 2020 comedy-drama film released on HBO Max - maybe add it to your viewing list 🥒☺️

maanaszachariah60
maanaszachariah60 1 month ago

I love that idea of writing down the things that haven’t changed I will try to remember that one

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agathe_prévost 1 month ago

Just size up as they are great jeans and love the green ones

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micheal.turner 1 month ago

Hi Lily! I've been watching you for well over 10 years and rarely comment, but something in this video moved me to say something. The way you talk about fit and sizing -- when something is tight on your thighs, your first instinct is 'this brand runs small' or 'their sizing is tricky to navigate,' and not 'my thighs are too big.' That should be commonplace, but it genuinely isn't, at least for me. I often default to the issue being with my body and not the brand, clothing, or cut/style of an item, and watching you navigate it so casually and openly over the years has been quietly eye-opening for me. Especially in this video - even if it is a short portion. I'm still working toward body neutrality, and you're a good reminder of what that can look like in practice. Thank you for that. (Totally normal thing to type to someone you've never met, I'm sure. 😅😂)

michelle_bryan
michelle_bryan 1 month ago

Hey Lily! I just saw on Asos, they have 'Adidas Originals Pickle Graphic T-shirts"!! 🤗🕵🏽‍♂️

severin.geisel
severin.geisel 1 month ago

Uniqlo do a design your own Tee, wonder if you could make yourself a LilyPickles t-shirt there 🤔😁

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andrew_martin 1 month ago

The green suit is lovely you can always take a bigger size...if its not comfy

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beth.cisneros 1 month ago

Loved this video Lily! Definitely here for the big sister wisdom. I also struggle with change (big and small) and I've never found a way to deal with it other than trying to journal and go with the flow. I found your method really interesting so I'll definitely give it a go. I think it will help me stop being so in my head about the problem! Love the sezane suit on you but I would definitely size up on the trousers if it was me. I also struggle with trousers being too tight on the thighs and bum area and I'm definitely conscious of my mum tum - not that we should be!

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dawn_horton 1 month ago

Hi Lily, a pickles series for insta sounds fun! And I would recommend to try Turkish pickles as they are salty ans sour, not sweet. There are some good places around too. Best.

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vasudhamalhotra949 1 month ago

thank you for sharing your process, Lily! I have a very similar relationship w change (and needing to feel more agency), but so much of the advice in this space is really abstract. like sure, 'do it scared', but HOW? will try your mindmaps next!

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luce.antoine 1 month ago

Size up on the bottoms from Sezane! Black honey has several shades of it and it’s balmy. Maybe you’ll life one of the other colors

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nermin.täsche 1 month ago

Lily you look absolutely fab in the jeans ❤

alexislopez263
alexislopez263 1 month ago

Hi Lily, Where did you get the 3 little individual sardines hanging by your coffee station? They are absolutely adorable!!! Thank you kindly, Luli 🐟🌸

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stéphane_lagarde 1 month ago

„She doesn’t like change“ is a sentence my family uses since I can remember 😅 I’m very thankful for their jokey way of accepting me. I try to push myself but get zero pressure from the outside - I get to celebrate some small and big wins. Its so nice to hear someone else talk about this ♥️ thank you for sharing. It can seem like no one has this „problem“. But I also see it as a superpower - I will remember the little things, look after stuff because I don’t want to replace it, restore and fix it attitude, keep and start traditions.. it has it’s perks 🌻

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garry.hayes 1 month ago

My mom always made bread and butter pickles when I was a kid. The slushie machine looks so fun for summer. I have the ninja air fryer and blender too. I love the green outfit. Just perfect for summer and spring.

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johnaura45 1 month ago

You’re so “real” lovely girl! From another salt beef lover 😍

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marcelladörschner483 1 month ago

Love your advice chat. Thank you Lily ❤