Are you tired of struggling to maintain healthy relationships? Do you find yourself repeating the same mistakes over and over again? In this video, we'll explore 4 common behaviors that can kill relationships and provide you with practical tips to avoid them. By the end of this video, you'll have a better understanding of what not to do in your relationships and how to foster healthier connections with the people you care about. So, sit back, relax, and let's dive into the 4 common behaviors that kill relationships. If you want to learn about five more relationship killing behaviors, check out Part 1 here: https://youtu.be/mumve9qhKZo Writer: Stela Košić Editor: Brie Cerniglia Script Manager: Kelly Soong Voice Over: Amanda Silvera (www.youtube.com/amandasilvera) Animator: Cristina B. YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong References: Estévez, A., Chávez-Vera, M. D., Momeñe, J., Olave, L., Vázquez, D., & Iruarrizaga, I. (2018, August 1). El papel de la dependencia emocional en la relación entre el apego y la conducta impulsiva. Anales De Psicología, 34(3), 438–445. doi.org/10.6018/analesps.34.3.313681 Freedman, G., Burgoon, E. M., Ferrell, J. D., Pennebaker, J. W., & Beer, J. S. (2017, August 11). When Saying Sorry May Not Help: The Impact of Apologies on Social Rejections. Frontiers in Psychology, 8. doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2017.01375 Johnson, M. D., Lavner, J. A., Mund, M., Zemp, M., Stanley, S. M., Neyer, F. J., Impett, E. A., Rhoades, G. K., Bodenmann, G., Weidmann, R., Bühler, J. L., Burriss, R. P., Wünsche, J., & Grob, A. (2021, May 24). Within-Couple Associations Between Communication and Relationship Satisfaction Over Time. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 48(4), 534–549. doi.org/10.1177/01461672211016920 McCullough, M. E., Pedersen, E. J., Tabak, B. A., & Carter, E. C. (2014, July 14). Conciliatory gestures promote forgiveness and reduce anger in humans. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 111(30), 11211–11216. doi.org/10.1073/pnas.1405072111 Nimmo, K. (2021, December 16). When Your Partner Loves You — but Micromanages Your Life. Medium. Retrieved September 13, 2022, from medium.com/on-the-couch/when-your-partner-loves-you-but-micromanages-your-life-74e7b780053e
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The fact that my boyfriend and I watch these together makes me so happy. Y’all really helped us out ❤.
1 - Not apologizing 0:56 2 - codependency 2:18 3 - Unclear communication 3:33 4 - Micromanaging 4:56
For everybody who has asked out their crush and been rejected, I feel you. But you still did an incredibly brave thing, and I'm proud of you. I promise things will work out. Video is amazing Psych2Go! Topics Below: 1. Partners unintentionally hurting one another and avoiding an apology. 1:00 2. Being overly attached and dependent on your partner. 2:18 3. Poor communication, or lack of clear communication. 3:34 4. Micromanaging. 4:56
My relationship used to suffer a lot from unclear communication, and honestly, micromanaging is something that I still struggle with internally... I have since learned how to take control of these compulsive desires, but that doesn't mean I still don't find myself dwelling on the little things that people don't do every now and then.... It's honestly difficult not to let those kinds of thoughts consume me, especially if I've already had a rough day to begin with
Who's watching this despite not even being in a relationship?
The second one is really true for me... I've always felt this feeling of worthlessness whenever I'm not with my partner. Ever since I got into a relationship too, I slowly stopped talking to all of my friends and replying to their texts. Whenever I'm not with my partner, I feel anxiety so intense that I sometimes get panic attacks or auditory hallucinations. Im constantly scared that I might do something to make my partner leave me so I constantly apologize for every thing... and I feel that it only brings us both down when I apologize for everything. I'm unnecessarily clingy and I would sacrifice anything and everything for them. This video really opened my eyes but I don't know what to do to be better, idk what to do to fix this.
Can’t kill if I can’t create
It's easy to have a good marriage when things are going well. But learning to work TOGETHER through the hard stuff without blaming each other is what we've found is key. We've also learned to express what we are looking for. The best way for that is "Lovify" couple game. In this game, we have to guess each others expectations. Been 7 Years & we still put efforts to understand each other better 💞
I have a suggestion Your videos are amazing And help me so much But it would be great if you provide solutions on what to do if you do these things Example: being overly attached And then how can you avoid this.
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The importance of sincerity and vulnerability in maintaining healthy relationships is major point here, and reminds us that it's okay to admit when we've made a mistake. It's a valuable message that can help us build stronger, more resilient connections with the people we care about.
Why the heck am I here, when I’m single????!!!🗿
Do you guys want us to make a follow up topic to this? If so, what do you want us to talk about?
Man, i am a bad partner. I thought i wasnt. Update a year later, you can change. But you have to really want it, like a muscle that needs training. Also turns out i had hormonal issues, and that wasnt helping
I sympathize with the second point. Not in a relationship, but as friends with the opposing sex. I have learned a little bit to control it. I still fear to get too attached though...
I've learned so much from these videos...I split with my ex recently because I just felt we were sooo incompatible that, I felt I couldn't cope..it brought out some toxic behaviors that I now wish very much I had the tools mitigate at the time...I care for her very deeply, and truly want her to have the best in life.. ironically, I found it very hard for me to always be my best self...who admittedly has some issues...looking back we were just both very afflicted with our own traumas and..and never had the knowledge or techniques or prior healing within ourselves to be together...I still believe that it's best that we separated..space was necessary..but I just hate that it felt that it needed to be for good because looking back...I don't miss her as a lover. I miss her as a friend I miss her as family. I pray one day we both can heal and learn how to be happy...with ourselves and each other...to my Baby K. I'm deeply and truly sorry for all of my dysfunctional behaviors. From the previous lifetime..those to come, and beyond. You are forever loved.
I love coming back to this channel for not only the entertainment but to educate myself on these things, thank you I hope this channel continues to help those who need it the most ❤
I've killed friendships or friendships were killed in the past that led me to have new friendships now due to letting certain friends go. No one said sorry except for me. A girl for my 20th birthday gave me a note that left me in tears because I've never got a note from a girl before and I felt important. I felt important to her even though I've only known her for two months. What matters is learning and forgiving those that hurt you. It's a long process but having closure helps.
Great video! I'm really struggling right now my 7-year relationship just ended a month ago. I truly believed he was the love of my life, and I can’t stop thinking about him. I’ve tried everything to get him back, but nothing works, and I feel completely lost and hopeless. I’m trying to move on, but my heart is still 100% with him. I don’t see myself ever being with anyone else. Sorry for dumping this here, I just can’t stop missing him.