In today's video, we dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships and the rise of toxicity within them. We explore the fine line between healthy consent and emotional manipulation, lack of communication, and the dangerous impact of jealousy. From understanding the signs of a toxic relationship to analyzing the factors that contribute to emotional distress, this video provides crucial insights for anyone navigating love in today's world. Additionally, we discuss real-world examples like the recent couple influencers and how social media adds layers of pressure in relationships. Stay tuned to learn how to recognize red flags, improve communication, and prioritize your emotional health in relationships. About Dr Vijender: Dr Vijender Chauhan is an educator, UPSC Interviewer and Motivational speaker with an experience of over a decade. He is one of the most recognized faces among the UPSC aspirants. Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masijeevi Twitter: https://x.com/masijeevi?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masijeevi/ Public speaking series: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZsjpxNdkPe9703jiUliZrRB8cZMIXPyH&si=iIQoHc2SrsoOdI1M Podcast with Dr Vijender: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZsjpxNdkPe8xHGGNWhzZEzVbugyiyGnd&si=qyySVVRlZNSba8LI
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Jis society mai hum rehte hai, us society mai rishte ko majboori mai nibhaane ki training di jaati hai. Mai toh hmesha se ye sochta tha ki kuch saal pehle tak hi 2 anjaan log ek dusre se shadi kar lete hai, woh ek dusre ko thik se jaante bhi nhi hote aur physical ho jaate hai, kaise bhai? Mujhe aaj tak is sawal ka valid jawab nhi mila.. bas ek hi baat hmesha ki kyunki sab aisa karte hai tum bhi karo, yahi sanskaar hai.. aur usi ko pyaar ka naam de do.. fir samay ke sath jab klesh badhte hai toh nibhaao jaise taise.. aji ghante ka samaaj hai ye, khud ko sanskaari samjhne wale log ye sab karte hai.. is se lakh guna acche woh log hai jo ek dusre ko jaan kar samajh kar ye decide karte hai ki unhe saath rehna chahiye ya nhi, aur rishta toxic ho toh woh log kam se kam discuss toh karte hai rishte k future ke bare mai, insan apni voice toh utha sakta hai... Lekin sala yahan ke jaahil log ghut ghut ke jeene ko, toxic rishte ko bhi ghaseet ghaseet ke chalane ko achievement samjhte hai, aur sochte hai jodiyaan toh bhagwaan ke ghar se banti hai🤦
सम्बन्ध को बचाने की अतिशय चेष्टा, सम्बन्ध को समाप्त होने का कारण बनती हैं। ❤ 🙏🙏
Sab moh maya hai, be single and love yourself. You do not need anyone especially in the 21st century to depend on anyone for your financially, emotionally or spiritually.
1.Emotional manipulation 2.Lack of communication 3.jealousy and controlling 4.Stop trying too hard and give time to the relationship 5.Real vs Reel 6.effect of patriarchy on both genders.
Jealousy, control wale topic pe ek detailed video ho jaye sir! These conversations are way more important than we realise!
कब से सोच रही थी कि कोई इस टॉपिक पर कोई बात करे। थैंक्स सर❤
Mujhe lgta h ek shi relationship wo h jha p mutual respect h ...aur ek reason a ek dusre ko respect krne ka admire and usse inspire hone ka....aur good comunication ho ... emotional responsibility ho, mutual care aur willingness ho ek dusre ka sath dene ka aur relationship m ane wale chalenges ko face krne ka ......usme ek sence of personal space ho.... freedom of choices ho ....and courage to face disagreements ho bina us disagreement ko personal liye .....and most importantly trust ho aur constant curiousity ho ek dusre se kuch alg janne ki ...... I don't know these kind of peoples even exist or not .... I'm a 22 year old girl and i always think like this...but I never met someone who has these values....sb bolte h ye sb real nhi h aur ye artificial feel hota h ye sb sch m ni hota emotions aise work ni krte ye to buisness jaisa ho gya..... I'm like ha to isiliye hi na life partners khte h ..... I don't know I'm right or wrong or partially right...but there is so many other things to consider.....but ajtk meri life m jitne bhi males se bat hui h ...they never agree with me not even in my family...so i think m single hi rh jaungi 😂😂😂
Maine kal hi apna relationship toda hai jo bahut hi toxic aur controlling tha. Jo bat sir bataye hai wo bat apply ho rha tha. Maine bat karna chaha lekin nahi kiya. Ye sab 2 sal se chal rha tha. Finally maine bol diya ki mujhse ab nahi hoga. Love you sir ❤
आज के जरूरत के हिसाब से बहुत ही बढ़िया topic पर चर्चा किए है सर आपने,,, साधुवाद आपको🙏
Sir ne sahi kaha hamare families melodramatic hoti hai😡
I loved a guy ...five months later he broke up even after he emotionally manipulated to do everything what people do in relationship...5-6 months I faced the worst trauma almost cried everyday in my room ..., when after this I found some courage to move on and decided to not to talk , he started abusing me , saying you never love me , love my foot and everything and I was someone who loved him with my whole heart even I loved him more than my family....so this is time , here living the worst life , and struggling with carrier....😢 Plz think 1 lakh time before entering into relationship.... Some days are that much suffocating when it became hard to survive some how I survived....
जिससे आप प्रेम करते हैं उसे पर विश्वास करके उसको स्वतंत्र छोड़ दीजिए कभी जिंदगी में रिलेशनशिपटूट नहीं सकता है
Toxicity tab aati h jab koi ek k loyality me Kami aati h 😂
IDEAL RELATIONSHIP SHOULD LET YOU BREATHE, AND IDEALLY, IT SHOULD LET YOU BREATHE TOGETHER❤ Thnks sir
I broke up my relationship with gf yesterday. I was feeling guilty but after watching this video I feeling relaxed. ( She was har baat pe gussa karne wali girl
Divorce ho ya toxic relationship aukat se jada sabko is jamane me sbkuch mil jata h or isilye kisi ko khone ka dar ni ab koi compromise ni krta jo kuch hud tk sahi bhi h..aur baki bachi kuchi is social media ne krdiya to extra marital affair cheat ye sab ho rha...kul milakr mje to time sahi ni lg rha...sab samay ka khel h😢
But sir ideal relationship never exist.... Like ideal gas.... Whatever is ideal that remains ideal...... Harsh but truth......
Sometimes it's toxic for only one person...another person is still happy and normal in a relationship ....
My relationship started during corana time..with a wrong number.. after 6 months we meet each other..now it's our 4.5 years relationship. I'm a student in IIT Bhubaneswar doing msc course and he is a horticulturist..now we are bg with ours own work..we talk in a day minimum 1hr and maximum 2 hours,but to till reach this label..it takes 3 years to making a base of relationship relationship like to know about each other very well, mutual understanding and trust is strong,now we make understand each other after 3 years relationship when i enter IIT,our relationship old , base is strong,we should do work with matured,we should not keep those habits like a new relationship. now it's time to love each other and more focus on our own work,now our days is going happily.
सम्बन्ध विच्छेद को किसी भी कीमत पर बचाने का पारिवारिक जनों का प्रयास काफ़ी कामगर साबित होता है...sir कुछ समय साथ बिताने के बाद फिर से संबंधों के तनाव में कमी आता है और समय के साथ तनाव खत्म भी हो जाता है, जीवन फिर से सुखमय हो जाता है... इसीलिए ऐसा कदापि नहीं होना चाहिए कि हम परिवार/ सामाजिक स्तर पर संबंधों में विच्छेद न हो इसके लिए कोई कदम ही न उठाएं