Advice to women struggling to leave a toxic relationship‼️ #fyp #foryoupage #relationshipadvice

Many women CANT leave because they don't have the resources, support or there are children involved and by extension family of the spouse

NEVER entertain abuse and disrespect. Once a narcissist knows they can do so, it gets worse over time. Leaving is the only way to put an end to someone abusing you and wasting your precious time.

Ladies, do you agree with Tia? 🤔 Drop a ❤️ if you felt this.

Exactly…no excuse for staying with someone who mistreats you. When you really love yourself…you won’t tolerate it!

Sometimes, it's finances, not lack of courage

She is not lying. It is called self love deficit disorder aka codependency. The fear of being alone is what drives it.

There are men who make a woman feel guilty of everything. My daughter was married to a narcissist

PREACH!! THAT'S RIGHT!! I took too long to love myself. I had to heal from everything to see that I was priceless. I am worthy. I am a good woman with a good heart, and I deserve to be happy and feel loved every day, all day. I love me some me!!

Soooo true.... but once you walk away you feel like a brick is off of you!!!

Deep. You love that person more than you love yourself. That’s crazy when you put it that way. The relationship turns toxic when that happens.

Don’t STRUGGLE gurl RUN and never look back

❤❤❤❤, Ssssoooo true! Now that I'm working out, losing weight, pampering myself I feel my self worth and feel like I don't need him. Which now, hes trying to take care of me now, and wants to be there.. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I had The strength To get out of a toxic relationship

Good point. Childhood trauma will cause you to not just tolerate but subconsciously attract abuse and narcissists. Don't be afraid to get professional help ladies. Getting therapy is nothing to be ashamed of.

I went through this, I loved the other person more than myself. I put myself last, no more of this. I had to learn the hard way.

Been there. I got out with the strength and help of family and friends. My self-esteem was broken down by him slowly to where I didn’t realize how bad it was until later. He did that to control me and make me believe that no one else would want to be with me and I couldn’t survive without him.

very very true. ♥️

That's is 100 % That's how degraded you be and he keeps you there by not accepting you either. Leave and save yourself You feel so much lighter when you shed his pounds.

❤ Yes! It’s an inner transformation. It takes work but then it starts to take off. You’re never the same and your whole perspective changes.

I can tell ya why i haven't left my toxic relationship yet ... my kid's. I didn't want to tear their world apart. I didn't want to have to get rid of the pet's we had since the kid's were young, didn't want to take them away from the only home they knew & i would have had to put them into daycare & work 2 job's to afford the daycare & maybe rent. I finally (several yrs back), climbed out of the quagmire that i allowed myself to fall into. To get out of your toxic relationship, you need to take the first step. Whether its been 6 mos or 20 yrs., take the time to get your finances in order. Do you have your own income? Look for your own place to rent. Get those ducks in a row, realize that nothing is going to change, until you take the step to make the change. You can thrive without that negative weight tied around your neck. If he/she loved you ... they would be a true partner, no excuses, no blaming other's. Take the leap.