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Words of great wisdom. What a genius man.
I just left one!! He tried hard to drown everyone. I'm thankful for the courage to stop him.
When I was a life guard this 300+ pound woman went swimming immediately after leaving the al you can eat buffet, I had to knock her out to save her Because she kept pulling me under and trying to drown me
Saving yourself to not go down with someone isn't abandoning them. It's survival.
A harsh truth
Had to listen to this 5 times.
Ok. Sounds like good advice, as far as life goes. I don't think I ever got this, until hearing Jordan.
It's also common sense the one thing about common sense is that it's not that common at all these days I love you Jordan
I would argue that it feels like cruelty but I’m trying to not always feel like the victim. I suppose a good question would be, if I know or feel like I’m dragging my partner down, how do I stop that? I obviously don’t want to hurt the person I love or drag them down
With some people, the more you help them, the harder they lean, until they break you and become indignant that you're no longer capable of holding them up. It simply doesn't occur to them that they should try to get up on their own hind legs after all that assistance.
Dr Peterson saves and has saved many with his wise words... We learn from him everytime we tune in... Love him so... ❤
That's wisdom
Kinda like he's speaking to me at this very moment in my life...
To be obligated to sacrifice someone in order to survive is very painful, and feels immoral. But it is the ONLY course of action possible, whatever the temptation to backslide and make the best of it.
Facts
As a former Lifeguard, letting a drowning person go down because they won't listen to instruction and try to drown everyone saving them is a hard thing to accept but it's necessary because you can save more lives than they can.
That's every damned relationship I've ever been in. I'm so tired their are no words.
What is the best thing to do when you are watching someone drown in a toxic relationship but are so swept up in their narcissism and manipulation and can’t admit it. You can see they know it deep down but it’s almost like a one man cult.
Jordan's drowning shows up as instructions to "burn yourself off" and "dispense with the parts of you" and "be a good person (as opposed to a bad person)". Jordan's drowning was caused by Walt conflating the role of a father with conflict, dread, and counterwill.
It's so hard when you're "the savior" type of person 😪 I finished a relationship of three years and I feel so sad about it, thinking that I will never have a relationship this deep (I know I'm probably wrong about that but I'm scared). But I had to finish it cause he was doing bad to me and I couldn't do that to myself anymore. I tried saving him but I'm not superwoman and I must learn that. I miss him. Is this feeling going to go away?? I'm so tired 😓 I hope he is okay right now. He did so many bad things to me, why I still care about him? He didn't love me the way I deserved and still I feel worried about him. I feel stupid as fuck 😓