Is this true about being in unhealthy relationships with insecure people? 👀

No amount of money or sex is worth you losing yourself just to appease him/her. Walk away & preserve your peace at all costs. 🙏🏾💯❤️🖤

"Soooo... wat u finna do"? 😂😂 Lol. Love Tripp ✊🏾.

“You’re Not doing a Good job, if He’s Still on your ass about it.” “You’re Not Manipulating YOURSELF Enough” “So Whatchu Goin Do?” MY GOD!!!! That Hit.

Truth is, no matter how good or perfect a person is, they will never be good enough to cure another persons insecurities. That broken part of them can only be fixed by the person that's broken.

Anytime you have to move TOO far from yourself, in order to get CLOSER, TO SOMEONE ELSE.. Then you set yuhself up, to take all the "L"s... ALL.

I think it's normal & even healthy for couples to reassure one another from time to time, but when their insecurities are insatiable that's gonna be problematic. It's NOT our job to feed an insecure existence of that magnitude. And sacrificing ourselves is ABSOLUTELY NOT the answer. They gotta fix their brokenness.✨

Facts!! I did this an had to really look in the mirror an be like who am i an who have i become smh

You just need to leave. People who are insecure will always find something to be insecure about. You can change yourself to appease those insecurities but then it's one thing then it's something else.. it never ends. Just leave. Insecure people need to be with themselves until they sort through their insecurities and how to cope.

Leave him at this point

Gotta love ❤️ Tripp. Always so insightful and well spoken 👏

And the minute you tell them that you want to end the relationship for this reason, they cry that you gave up and quit. There's no winning when you deal with a woman or man who's insecure. Sadly, MILLIONS AND MILLIONS of men AND women are insecure as hell thanks to the RIDICULOUS expectations society places on people.

I just told somebody this about being married. If you start the marriage trying to make her happy, you will spend the entire marriage trying to make her happy.... And then when you're divorced, she still won't be happy.

I have the upmost respect for this brother! He keeps calm and delivers with facts that are unquestionable. Keep doing your thang!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

In the beginning, it feels like you've met the kindest, most affectionate person in the world. They are gentle, caring, and seem to mirror your every move. You might dismiss their lack of intimacy as shyness, not realizing that they are simply reflecting you back to yourself. As time passes, you notice something unsettling. they rarely express love in their own words. Instead, they respond with robotic phrases like, "I feel the same way," or "I love you just as much." They never voluntarily tell you they miss you or love you just because. You start wondering if they even have real feelings. In response, you try harder--showing more love, breaking down their walls hoping they’ll reciprocate. But they don’t. Their withholding feels like insecurity or trust issues, but in reality, it's something deeper. You get lost trying to make sense of their actions, but there is no logic, only confusion. Eventually, you become drainedmentally, emotionally, even physically. You either gain or lose weight, feel constantly anxious, and struggle to maintain peace within yourself. You take on more responsibilities, making their life easier while yours feels isolated and empty. One day, they seem into you, and the next, they pull away. When you express your concerns, they dismiss them, reassuring you with empty words. You begin suppressing your feelings, convinced you're too sensitive. They’re physically present, yet emotionally absent. If you ever confront them about the disconnect, they’ll gaslight you—making you feel insecure for even asking. If you cry, they won’t comfort you; they’ll scroll through their phone or continue eating as if nothing is happening. Their words never match their actions. Over time, you feel like you don’t even know them. Their emotional intelligence is so off, it’s as if you're teaching a child how to feel. They keep every aspect of their life private family, finances, phone, friends. At first, it seems like personal boundaries, but after years, it feels like secrecy. They promise things but never follow through. They isolate you yet pretend they’re doing nothing wrong. When you question them, they act confused, making you over-explain yourself. Even their apologies are manipulative empty words with no change in behavior. They’ll make you doubt reality. For example, they might give you $200 to pamper yourself but won’t invite you to Christmas dinner. They disappear for hours, then bring you breakfast as if that erases their absence. If you question them, they twist it to make you feel like the problem. Even intimacy is empty. Sex is routine no passion, no deep connection, no foreplay. Just mechanical. In the beginning, they might put in effort, but it fades quickly. No cuddling, no deep kissesjust another transaction. You’ll constantly wonder why their schedule changes so often, why they’re always so secretive. You might even become afraid to Google their name, scared of what you’ll find. Deep down, you know something is off, but by the time you realize it, you’re in too deep,trapped in their web of deception. And yes, they are always cheating. They exhaust themselves hiding it abusing caffeine, using ED meds, sneaking off with a secret phone, manipulating finances. They take long bathroom breaks, change work shifts unexpectedly, and always have excuses. If you ever catch them, they’ll gaslight you with nonsense explanations. Even if you track their location, they’ll claim Google is wrong. Additionally, If you need to find out about a Cheating Narcissist; send a request to: MetaspyHub com

This. And it goes for ALL your relationships. Especially your family. Don't dim your light to fit in. You weren't meant to.

Don’t lose yourself ❤

Trying to do so never works. You are ever changing, it's exhausting, and it kills your spirit. Working to be your best self and being with someone who appreciates and enhances you is what's worth it the most.

He always has something meaningful to say. 🥰

twisting into something THAT HURTS to make someone else feel good cannot be maintained forever eventually you gon’ unravel.. so yeah the question truly becomes, “wha you finna do?” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Dang bro, hit different when he put it this way.