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dont react (you don't respond ro them) ignore them (you attach no importance to them / their chatter) transform them (you could try to change them) or disconnect from them (you leave them never to deal with them) my family were toxic i disconnected from them 30years. while hard it was easier than dealing with them. proof even when mum passed after 30years i went back to say goodbye...no remorse no guilt no kindness from them...no even a hello. lucky for me i was grounded knowledgeable about myself & the world. i was the best version of myself (smiles hugs kisses & happy warmth) boy did they not like i was a success
I was thinking, that my husband was toxic. He died and now I think, what if I was toxic...
Nobody can explain such a complex matter in such simple way....Thank you Sadhguru!!❤😊
If someone is nasty to you first try love. If that does not work, try compassion. If that does not work distance. -Sadhguru
If you truly manage to ignore them believe me you will solve the problem, Sadhguru is right, I could not escape my family and this is the only method that worked, I changed myself and learned to ignore.
This man has done more for me than anyone else in my whole life
Many people who believe they are in toxic relationships are actually dealing with over thinking, over reacting, over arguing. Most of the times they argue on common outcome but different paths and different ideas
Therapists would say that this is considered passive aggressive behaviour but I think that the most important thing is your inner peace above the other person's inner turmoil.
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My mantra - never deal with them. I simply walk away from such people and create lovely & happy environment somewhere else. 😊❤
Just When I needed You came up. ThankYou Sadhguru. Namaskaram.
When you ignore someone who is toxic, this behavior triggers their anger 😡
For toxic people: set firm boundaries
Thank you Sadguru ❤
I removed myself from a toxic environment a couple years ago. You feel a responsibility to help those close to you but removing yourself is always the best thing to do. If it is a relationship you want to keep you poke your head to say hi here and there and wait till you have respect and they listen to you. If at any point you feel uncomfortable again you remove yourself and keep distance until you are comfortable to say hi again. Best of luck. Om Namo Shivaya
Ignoring is easier when, like an insect, a person is consistent and predictable in their abusive behavior. The most difficult is dealing with the inconsistent and unpredictable abuser who is more like the beloved animal who, on many occasions, has been loving or protective, but has also bitten you in the face.
Got notification When i needed ❤
You are genius
Great advice!!
NICE TO HEAR. THANK YOU SIR.