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The worst part is that when you try to address any of these things, they will flip it back on you and say you're the problem
They gaslight ur memory of an event telling u that it didn't happen or u are wrong
Everything you tell them will be used against you
“It’s difficult to put into words what’s happening therefore I feel extremely isolated and alone”
Don't forget the "Silent Treatment".......don't walk, RUN........
They love being social butterflies while they alienate you and take everything you have.
Never thought getting a 10 outta 10 would be such a crappy thing 😵💫
"It's difficult to explain what it's like being in relationship with this person" Hits the nail on the head😢!!!!
I haven't stopped crying after listening to this. The truth hurts. 😢
Wow the chronic fatigue is so real
Even after leaving the relationship, the damage it leaves on our health is forever! 😢
All of the above. Im so glad these videos exist because they help me find the words.
They aren't interested in you or your past..nor your successes..it's all about them ..talk about themselves and never asking how your day went because they don't care about your feelings or opinions .you're a target that doesn't give good supply because you think for yourself..they can't have that or you having supportive people.
9/10 of these. I didn't have PTSD but I did get depressed and would just lay in bed and wouldn't want to do anything.
When you stand up for yourself (when they are insulting you or bullying you), they respond with threats, more insults, or shaming. And if that doesn't get you back under their control, they may get other people involved, giving them a completely different version of events, in which they are the innocent victim and you are the aggressor. Also, they will act one way when they are alone with you, but then turn into a completely different person when other people are around. Sometimes, they can change so quickly, it is as if a switch has just been flicked. Because of this, no one else sees the version of that person that you see, and no one else would ever believe it if you told them.
I could handle most of this for 2 decades, but since I became aware of the cheating on top of it all my heart broke, my hair fell out and it felt like a tun of bricks rested on my chest. I was severely traumatised for 4 years. By prayer and support of friends and by understanding due to these videos from several counsellors I have healed alot. Thank you
Wow 9 out of 10. 28 years of this. I am phenomenal now. Wow! I am free. I have PEACE. I lost 28 years but I have a beautiful son who is my best friend. I kept him safe. I would do it all again to keep my son safe from my ex and his family of flying monkeys who were all heavy, heavy drinkers. I was pregnant before I found out about their drinking and lying. Sad. I am grateful to be free. I walked away from a lot of money just to find some peace. My reputation has been destroyed by them. Their opinion of me means nothing now. It’s just sad that ppl I knew for 28 year, who should know me, choose to believe their lies. I can’t control or change it so I try to remember not everyone is supposed to be in my life forever. 🤷🏻♀️
I’ve noticed the BOTTOM LINE ‘sign’ is if this person is CONSTANTLY making you ‘justify’ yourself to them.
I have no one to talk to about this at all!😢
After I left them I retained a lack of eye contact, odd pauses in my speech, apprehensive approaches, trust issues... but at least it's peaceful.