Dating your friends ex is crazy, if they did something wrong to someone close to you , what makes you think they won't do it to you
tracey_ramos5 months ago
My philosophy is this: you saw what my partner did to me. I complained about it to you, best friend. Now you want to date this individual? Go ahead, put your hand on the hot stove. Have fun.
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aprilclark9605 months ago
My friend kept pushing me and bf to break up then got with him a week after we broke up.
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shawnbird2425 months ago
I'm not one to usually ever have grudges or even do anything crazy but I'd not only hate the friend that pushed someone to break up but then go and date them thats messed up on so many levels and happily? Heck no
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reynaldo_godínez5 months ago
I would be fine Ish with it if it was like eight years ago, but eight months ago..
ekani_goswami5 months ago
I went through exactly this: best friend of nearly 10 years dated my ex boyfriend 4 months after we broke up. I won't go into too much detail here, but long story short, everything blew up, I dropped her, she blamed me for the lost relationship and friendship, and she broke up with him 2 months later. She said that she was willing to lose me over my ex-boyfriend... just a piece of advice; there are 8 billion people in the world, I can promise you that your friend's ex is not your soulmate.
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gabriela.miranda5 months ago
Can’t wait for you to explain this at every event with her. “Hey, didn’t he date your best friend?” Have fun with that
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kimberlyechoing265 months ago
I dated a friend's ex once. HOWEVER they dated before I knew EITHER of them. So I had NO CLUE that they dated until I was a year into dating that guy and found out that my friend (now ex friend) was talking shit about me the whole time behind my back. Like girl I didn't freaking know! AND SHE ACTED HAPPY FOR ME!! WTF!!!
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normamcconnell2295 months ago
That woman is not your friend!
kristen_brooks5 months ago
My ex broke up with me. A month later, he started dating my best friend. They kept it a secret for a month before telling me. I lived with them for 3 years at that point. They were everything to me. I didn't want to lose my friends. I continued to live with them for 2 years. It has taken me a long time to realize how delusional I was. The day they told me, they knew there was a chance of losing me. And they were okay with that. It has taken me over six months to realize that. Yes i moved out. Yes I let that resentment bubble up. Yes i released it in an unhealthy way that caused me to lose more than those two friends. But honestly? I don't know how they saw that happen and still...my ex and former best friend have yet to face the consequences of their actions. All I can say is: be kinder to yourself. Know you deserve better. Don't let the fear of starting over keep you from living a happier life. I'm not there yet but I will be.
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bryanmyst975 months ago
She broke the friend code and cannot be trusted.
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leon.mohaupt5 months ago
There are 8 billion people on this Earth you could fall in love with. Excluding your friends' ex from that dating pool isn't too hard. :-/
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diane_thompson5 months ago
Homegirl would be eating her teeth.
annshah4555 months ago
It would be different if the best friend didn't push for the break up. It makes me think she had feelings for him before they broke up or maybe(I say think with a grain of salt cuz no evidence) maybe they were sleeping together before hand
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carrie.chambers5 months ago
You are such a good actress!
vincent_keer5 months ago
This is a tough one. A lot of intangibles. How long, how bad, how close of a friend, same circle, etc?
kabir_khalsa4 months, 4 weeks ago
I think its weird to date a friend's ex in general. No matter how "fresh" the breakup is.
anel.valdez4 months, 3 weeks ago
Regardless of what she said, I’d never believe that she didn’t do it on purpose, and I would never believe able to trust her. She can have him, because she doesn’t have me.
michael.campbell5 months ago
I will def end the friendship😢no matter what even if she's my bff
Dating your friends ex is crazy, if they did something wrong to someone close to you , what makes you think they won't do it to you
My philosophy is this: you saw what my partner did to me. I complained about it to you, best friend. Now you want to date this individual? Go ahead, put your hand on the hot stove. Have fun.
My friend kept pushing me and bf to break up then got with him a week after we broke up.
I'm not one to usually ever have grudges or even do anything crazy but I'd not only hate the friend that pushed someone to break up but then go and date them thats messed up on so many levels and happily? Heck no
I would be fine Ish with it if it was like eight years ago, but eight months ago..
I went through exactly this: best friend of nearly 10 years dated my ex boyfriend 4 months after we broke up. I won't go into too much detail here, but long story short, everything blew up, I dropped her, she blamed me for the lost relationship and friendship, and she broke up with him 2 months later. She said that she was willing to lose me over my ex-boyfriend... just a piece of advice; there are 8 billion people in the world, I can promise you that your friend's ex is not your soulmate.
Can’t wait for you to explain this at every event with her. “Hey, didn’t he date your best friend?” Have fun with that
I dated a friend's ex once. HOWEVER they dated before I knew EITHER of them. So I had NO CLUE that they dated until I was a year into dating that guy and found out that my friend (now ex friend) was talking shit about me the whole time behind my back. Like girl I didn't freaking know! AND SHE ACTED HAPPY FOR ME!! WTF!!!
That woman is not your friend!
My ex broke up with me. A month later, he started dating my best friend. They kept it a secret for a month before telling me. I lived with them for 3 years at that point. They were everything to me. I didn't want to lose my friends. I continued to live with them for 2 years. It has taken me a long time to realize how delusional I was. The day they told me, they knew there was a chance of losing me. And they were okay with that. It has taken me over six months to realize that. Yes i moved out. Yes I let that resentment bubble up. Yes i released it in an unhealthy way that caused me to lose more than those two friends. But honestly? I don't know how they saw that happen and still...my ex and former best friend have yet to face the consequences of their actions. All I can say is: be kinder to yourself. Know you deserve better. Don't let the fear of starting over keep you from living a happier life. I'm not there yet but I will be.
She broke the friend code and cannot be trusted.
There are 8 billion people on this Earth you could fall in love with. Excluding your friends' ex from that dating pool isn't too hard. :-/
Homegirl would be eating her teeth.
It would be different if the best friend didn't push for the break up. It makes me think she had feelings for him before they broke up or maybe(I say think with a grain of salt cuz no evidence) maybe they were sleeping together before hand
You are such a good actress!
This is a tough one. A lot of intangibles. How long, how bad, how close of a friend, same circle, etc?
I think its weird to date a friend's ex in general. No matter how "fresh" the breakup is.
Regardless of what she said, I’d never believe that she didn’t do it on purpose, and I would never believe able to trust her. She can have him, because she doesn’t have me.
I will def end the friendship😢no matter what even if she's my bff
This is exactly what's happening to me 😭