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The title made me abit sad for our Milly Mills. Sending our little rising star and her hero mom so much love. Sending lightning to the other side. (I haven't watched, will be back)

I apologize for what I'm about to say, but perhaps there's a small blessing in such a painful situation. Both of your girls share the experience of growing up with an absent father, and I hope that, instead of it creating division, it becomes something that helps them understand and support one another. They'll be able to relate to each other's feelings without unnecessary comparisons or envy. As they grow up, I hope they remind each other that none of it was ever their fault. They didn't choose these circumstances, and neither of them is to blame for missing out on having their dad present. It's a tremendous loss for both fathers as well, because they're the ones missing the opportunity to witness their daughters grow, love them every day, and be part of their lives. It's never an excuse for bad behaviour or sibling rivalry. My hope is simply that this shared experience strengthens their bond and brings them even closer as sisters.

Yaze yabuhlungu inhliziyo yami ngo Milani 😢 kodwa ke it is for the best. I'm glad she has all of you guys to support her. Kuzolunga ❤ *also I'm the number 1 supporter ka Original Rapeleng. Mina ngazi yena bandla 🤣

Sad for Milani but also very glad she has a mom like you! you're so self-aware, you acknowledge her feelings, you talk her through things whether its easy or difficult. You're doing amazing!!

The minute you said origina rapeleng ndavuyaaaaaaa

As a daughter of a deadbeat,thank you for explaining clearly to mimi what is happening .and that experience of being ignored (as painful as it is) was need in helping her understand.. I'm proud of mama

I love it when the gang is all together under one roof

Hey my loves. Those enquiring about the name of the cooking app, here you go: /

Ohhh Mandy your kids are lucky to have you as a mom and I wish gore Milly abe sharp and Wawa is the best big sister ke kopa lebe sharp love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤

Milani is going to be A RICH Aunty🤣🤣🤣and you have to have six pack not be skinny

Well done mommy🎉. CUT😢. The traumas of the absent father wounds is unacceptable. Teach her in truth and in spirit. Amen❤

I didn’t think we were getting any vlog I’m soooo happy🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

Hey Mandz!!! Oh girl youve come a long way ukuba where you are right now . No one has it easy at all, we all have our moments of trials and tribulations . I've silently watched your vlogs from way back and you used to be my inspitation ... i remeber i used to watch you ngisahlala ekhaya id be in my bedroom on weekends just watching your vlogs and that was before 2023 and i remember that b3cause 2023 its a year a bought a home for me and my baby girl. Id watch your vlogs , pep home hauls and i would pray to God to bless me with a home for my daughter . It is in those vlogs, hauls and baking moments were i could relate as a young mother that one day God would answer my prayers and HE has. Even to this day i still watch your vlogs ... in the mist of Umgowo wakho may you never forget ukuthi ubuyaphi with God ... God and your ancesters have never failed you and im sure they wont start today. Those men may not be a part of your kids lives and assist you financially but they can never take what God has blessed you with, they can never remove Gods hand over your life. Those kids will always have food and more . Because the tears you cry when you alone are not invain. Im a mother myself living with my daughter , just the two of us and although her father provides financially but there were times when i handed everything to God and i said God this men is your child just like i am your child , angisenendaba ukuthi wenzani nini nakwenze njani but i hnd everything to you . But please if you cant remember me atleast remember my daughter , and life was never the same. To close this off.. youre doing exeptionally well for you and the kids , give it all to God and just live your life to the fullest , we dont wanna see you sad let the other chapter of your life prevail . Love lots!!!!❤❤❤❤

Ka kuku ya ga mang sent me😭😭 bathong Mandy 😂😂💀💀

Am due for this conversation with my girls (7 and 8, respectively), funny how a generation curse can come down to my kids the exact same way it did for me. This conversation was never had with me (my mom died while i was very young). My kids deserve better, am having this conversation with them soonest and possibly get them some sort of therapy. When i say that I hate absent fathers, please believe me. Milani will be ok, maybe not now but eventually.

I hope you and the babies le sharp. ❤ Ke le rata thata!

Oooh how I waited for this vlog I'm happy guys Love you sis Mandy

Yeeeeeee original rapeleng❤

I'm realy sad about the situation with Milani, was really hopefull the dad will really show up and be consistent this time. I commend you for having that honest coversation and letting the responsibility of the disconnect fall on his side. Too many of us moms have carried burdens that were never for us to carry.

thank you for affirming us that it gets better, can't wait.