My Side of the story || Truth behind my divorce || How society treats men !!

Too much interference from anyone—whether it’s a mother, father, sibling, friend, or even the couple themselve ; can create problems in a relationship. A healthy relationship needs boundaries, trust, and respect from everyone involved.

Lamha Apne Mummy Papa dono ko deserve krti h😭💔

I feel that many of her insecurities may have stemmed from the challenges of pregnancy, postpartum depression, and the lack of emotional and physical intimacy during that phase of life. It was a period that likely required greater understanding, patience, and support from both partners. At the same time, it is important for couples to establish healthy and respectful boundaries with both sets of parents. While parents will always have an important place in our lives, the primary family unit is the husband, wife, and their child. Their relationship should be protected, nurtured, and prioritized. No matter how difficult circumstances become, outside influences should never be allowed to create division between spouses. A strong marriage is built on trust, communication, mutual respect, and standing together as a team through life’s challenges.

This is the first time in my life that watching someone else kalesh on social media doesn’t feel like a joy, but truly a painful experience

25:06 “During postpartum, when a person feels extremely lonely and emotionally empty, what they truly need is their partner — someone who listens, calms them, and holds them when they are at their lowest. That one hug, that sense of emotional presence and connection, carries a feeling that even thousands of helpers together cannot replace.”

Please sit, reflect and talk! It’s never too late! We all just got one life…..you have so many reasons to be happy and grateful! It goes for both you and Keerat! Please talk and resolve! If you don’t feel comfortable, don’t share anything on social media! TALK!!

My suggestion for both of you… Kindly take time and talk with each other.

I think she's under postpartum depression.. but she needed someone to guide her in right direction.. I feel sorry for everything you're going through

this is nothing just postpartum. itna gnda hota hai i can’t tell in words . she don’t want anything this time only pampering ,love no gyan chahiyae is time .. is time sirf love chahiyae tha yae bhut h different time hota hai ..everything you did that is normal she also loves you .. but yae time uska different tha but bs ap smj nii pa rae .. that is only issue

The saddest part about videos like this is how easily society sympathizes with a man the moment he says “I worked hard” while completely ignoring the emotional reality of the woman standing beside him through it all. Yes, building a business is difficult. Supporting family is difficult. But why do people talk as if pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum recovery, relocation, maintaining a home, emotional labor, motherhood, and balancing a career abroad are somehow effortless in comparison? A wife is not supposed to become emotionally invisible just because her husband is financially stressed. And honestly, the constant need to publicly explain how much he sacrificed, spent, and provided says more than people realize. Healthy husbands don’t usually need public validation to prove they were “the good one.” The obsession with controlling the narrative, listing expenses, and painting yourself as the endlessly sacrificing provider while subtly framing your wife as demanding or emotionally unreasonable is textbook emotional manipulation. People keep calling her “high maintenance” simply because she wanted time, emotional presence, reassurance, and partnership after becoming a mother. That is literally the bare minimum expected in a marriage. Wanting emotional connection from your husband after carrying his child is not materialism. Also, the internet conveniently forgets she had a full-time job, financially contributed earlier in the relationship, helped build the life they shared, and paused her career temporarily because she had a baby — something that physically, emotionally, and mentally changes a woman completely. Somehow her sacrifices disappeared overnight while his became heroic. And let’s stop pretending mothers “brainwash” happily married daughters into leaving stable relationships for fun. Most mothers would do everything possible to save their daughter’s marriage first. If things reached this point after a child, then clearly there were issues far deeper than what a carefully edited online narrative is showing. The harsh truth is: financial provision without emotional presence eventually starts feeling transactional, not loving. And many women are finally refusing to normalize emotional loneliness inside marriage just because society taught previous generations to silently tolerate it.

I am 5 months postpartum mom. I was not able to sit but still I was feeding my baby. My husband lost his job 2months just before my delivery. He and my mother in law were taking care of the baby most of the time. My mother in law had kitchen duty and my husband had baby duty so that I can take proper rest. Honestly telling you even then we used to fight a lot even on small things. After 2 months of fight just told him that I have depression so for some time don't argue with me. Just listen to whatever I am saying. For around 1.5 months we slept separately. Baby used to sleep with him so that I can take proper sleep. Because babies are loud while sleeping and a mom needs her rest. After around 4 months my body started healing and I was able to completely take care of my baby. But in those 2-3 months our couple relationship was challenged a lot. Postpartum is tough. Keerat could be right or wrong. Honestly it doesn't matter! She is in depression for whatever reason. Forget what happened in last 11 months. Don't even discuss why this happened with Keerat just try to patchup again. Forget about social media. Both of them!!! Work it out! This is just a phase and you guys will get over it for sure but pls pls pls don't post anything.🙏

really feeling so bad after seeing just 10 mins.. I saw Keerat's videos regularly and yet wasn't fully satisfied... I always felt that there was something more.. I feel that she is going through postpartum depression and you two were apart during this time so the distance grew and things fell apart

No matter who is right or wrong in this situation, one thing often gets overlooked: after a baby arrives, a husband and wife still need time to nurture their own relationship. Postpartum support from family is incredibly valuable, and having a village around a new mom can be a blessing. But a strong support system doesn't automatically strengthen a marriage. A wife can be surrounded by people helping with the baby and still feel disconnected from her husband. Parenting is a team effort, but so is maintaining the relationship that existed before the children. Both support and couple time matter, especially during the postpartum period.

13:45 sorry i don't understand the point of comparing keerat Porstamatum with yours frnds

I always felt this.. because I have seen keerat showing tantrums to feanshu alwaysssss snce they lived in basement...he has been really pateint with her because he loved her truly.. I feel so bad for him right now just because he is a guy he is suffering

Mujhe lagaa hi tha ki ek tarf ka story sunke judge nhi karnaa chahiye ... Dono side ka story jaana chahiye I was really waiting for you side story after watching keerat didi's vlog i know life me Boht changes aae unke sath but ap dono saath me Beth k uss chij me discuss kar skte the 16 saal k baad ese allegations lagana is not ok .. but I am really praying for your family ki kuch esa chamatkar ho jae ki ap sab sath me aa jao firse fishi kiki with lamha sab 1 ho jae aur pehle jese sath ho jao

Sharing from my own personal experience.. while a mother is still nursing the baby, she is in PostPartum, and definitely not rational at all times. This happens due to hormonal changes and it cannot be controlled. Major decisions should not be taken during this time. If you can, just try to ignore all the negativity for now, and just support her quietly however you can, and express your love and care to her. 2-3 months after the nursing period is over, she will likely start to feel like herself again.. that’s when you can really discuss and take any next steps if required. I know it’s tough but please give her some grace if you still love her. Also, she did not even mention one single detail about you in her videos.. she has maintained your dignity.. Imagine how she would feel seeing this video of yours..

Rule #1: Never make a judgment after hearing only one side of the story—especially when the storyteller has already cast themselves as the hero and someone else as the villain.

Please learn something called “grace”

Sometimes walking away isn’t giving up—it’s choosing yourself. If your effort isn’t appreciated, you deserve better. Stay where you’re valued, not tolerated. ❤️