Just don't forget that people only see what you are presenting. People rarely ever know one another... We experience each other. What are people experiencing when they spend time with you? Are you being consistent? Are you giving mixed signals? Before making assumptions about other people try some introspection. Then move to communicating to clarify the other person's perception... You might be surprised how much easier relationships become when it matters enough to establish your standing in healthy ways.
Just don't forget that people only see what you are presenting. People rarely ever know one another... We experience each other. What are people experiencing when they spend time with you? Are you being consistent? Are you giving mixed signals? Before making assumptions about other people try some introspection. Then move to communicating to clarify the other person's perception... You might be surprised how much easier relationships become when it matters enough to establish your standing in healthy ways.