3 Dating Advice Tips For Single Christian Women

A lot can change in a year. In 12 months I went from single dude to buying a house, getting married, having pets, more recently my wife is pregnant, and now we own a coffee shop.

Ugh I used to hear this but I got so tired of waiting and took matters into my hands . Rush a marriage that turned out to be a huge regret .. because I am a believer I had to live the consequences of not trusting God … long short story , I am still in this marriage fighting the spiritual battle , my husband is a new believer now but it took lots of pain and tears maybe 3 years nonstop of feeling miserable. I am still hoping the lord will turn this bad experience into something beautiful. My advice is don’t ever rush into a relationship because you are in your late 30s and think you won’t ever be a mother… thats a lie from Satan rooted In fear . It’s better to be single a thousands times than being married to the wrong person. I miss my years of being single 😢 but all I can do is now to turn to God and allow him to do his will . Find that wholeness in Jesus as he is the only one who can satisfy your needs.

Hey im 32 and single 😅 been looking for a women with fruits of the spirit

I joined multiple singles groups at different churches and made lots of friends (I'm super introverted and socially anxious, so no that's not an excuse to not do this). I was tired of the churches in my area creating their own little bubbles, so I decided to burst the bubbles. I hosted various social gatherings bringing people from the different groups together. Several marriages came about this way. Also, it was tons of fun! Several years later, after I had moved to another state, an old friend from one of those groups circled back into my life. Just over 2 years since then, we're married with a house and a baby 😊 You never know what God is going to do or when! My philosophy is to give Him room to work. When you're not sure what to do, keep your eyes on God, pick a direction, start walking, and He'll guide your steps. Also, if you're desiring marriage, don't only surround yourself with friends of your gender. This is a common mistake Christians make (I also am 30 and have witnessed this in my generation at several different churches). You're not going to meet men by surrounding yourself with women. Being able to socialize and even flirt with the opposite gender is a skill that many of us need practice to develop. I've seen way too Christians who desire marriage keep only to their gender and then when they do meet someone they're interested in dating, they are unable to talk to that person. They get super awkward and then wonder why they can't get a date. Get out there and socialize with a range of people so that when you do meet the right person, you're ready for them.

How about be honest about the guys you friend zoned?

That number three point is really helpful. I feel like I’ve been operating under that assumption, that my life hasn’t started because I’m still single. Thanks, Allie.

Stop being so picky. I have many single friends in their 30s but all refuse to give most guys a chance. They focus on looks and charm when that’s not really what should matter to women. Seek a man who loves God (desire to obey Him) and has the traits of good character (honesty, hard working, generous, courageous, etc). Life is not a fairytale so STOP looking for the most handsome, wealthiest, and charming guy. Chances are you’re not in his playing field anyway 😅

30 is not old..

This was me and my friends almost 10 years ago, spoiler alert, sometimes things don’t change for years no matter how hard you work at it and do the “how to get a date worth keeping” challenge - good luck and bless up

Don’t forget it’s a crisis to be 35 and single. Your fertility window is closing and there are no prospective fathers on the horizon.

I agree with all these.

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One year can change everything is so true!!! I got engaged October 2024, we had our wedding march 2025, and we got pregnant on our honeymoon and now I’m a mother. It hasn’t even been 2 years since my engagement. Also, I used to think once I got engaged it would take a year of planning before having the wedding, which is a common industry standard now but I’m here to tell you that you absolutely can plan a wedding in 3 to 4 months.. no need to wait a year.

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You don’t need to ask guys out but you need to actively let them know you’re interested. Look at them and smile when they make eye contact. Go to church socials or classes and introduce yourself. Use physical touch on their arm or shoulder, laugh at their jokes. Most guys need at least 10-15 signals before they’re confident enough to ask you out. It might seem like a lot but it’s well researched because remember that we want to be pretty sure you’re going to say yes because rejection sucks. Let guys know you’re interested so they know to ask you out! And don’t just go for the hottest guy that all the girls want. Be open to several people and give them a chance. You might be surprised what some average or decent looking guys have to offer. Don’t give up!

I am looking for a woman but don't have any single woman at church and the 2 that are single have know interested.

Find a good, Bible-believing church where members of the opposite sex will talk to you. Haven't found one yet.

If you're in your thirties you're already supporting yourself so what do you need a husband for? Marriage is not the be-all and end all of human existence. Sounds like you have a lot of good friends around you. So just serve the Lord and be happy. You don't have to be married to be happy.