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trying to make friends as a post-grad in a new city

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a very long vlog. change is scary but it is also fun and exciting and makes life worth living! all the love always, steph email for business inquiries: [email protected] amazon storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stephbohrer goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/stephbohrer instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephbohrer tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephbohrer?lang=en threads: https://www.threads.net/@stephbohrer spotify: https://open.spotify.com/user/stephbohrer?si=3ya-8bzvTQ66zFE7GrX5pw pinterest: https://pin.it/G9qU9Mh​​ twitter: https://twitter.com/stephbohrer

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diego_almeida
diego_almeida 1 year, 10 months ago

43:45 "it's truly the people that make the environment better. That's why I feel like here like I'm really focusing on building that community I just want to make this place my home even if it's just for a year, it's going to feel like home. If you take anything from this video it's do things that make you nervous do things outside of your comfort zone because you'll never know until you try." 💙

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meganseraph65 2 years ago

currently rewatching the whole charleston season and just wanted to say i love to see how far you‘ve come and I have so much love for you❤️

howardandrews312
howardandrews312 2 years, 3 months ago

Hey Steph! So i dont usually comment on videos as such but today i just felt like i need to let you know how much you mean to me! How much you have affected my life in a positive manner. I am following you since more than a year now and i have always always instantly felt happier after watching your vlogs. i have been going through a really depressing phase right now and above all being a med student just sucks sometimes lol but whenever i feel like i need some positive vibes i watch you and it instantly helps. Just want to let you know that you are helping hundreds if not thousands of people out there by just being you and hanging out with us through your vlogs❤. Kudos to you! I will always be there for you supporting you through everything.❤

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marie_austin 2 years, 4 months ago

I feel like I found your channel when I was so scared to make new friends and know in my heart that I needed to get out of my comfy zone and just start somewhere where I currently live even if its not the place I will be at forever, you have given me so much hope with being an introverted person myself, making this big change. You have no idea how much peace and inspo you have given my heart, thank you so much!! I totally understand your paranoia with that follower, people are just crazy some times and i dont understand it. Please stay safe at all times.

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ianvoid39 2 years, 5 months ago

your building not walking out when theres an alarm is so real 😭 also watching this part 40:44 makes me smile bcs just a few days ago i reconnected w/ my high school best friend and went out :D we fell out after high school (2021), didnt talk at all and all of sudden last oct i replied to her story and now im friends w/ her again. the friendship isnt like it used to be but the memories are still there and the fondness as well. and we also gossiped abt the ppl we used to be friends. honestly out of all friendships that i have, hers and another friend from middle school are the genuine friendship that i made :) and also so happy that i survived 18 and 19 to experience her friendship all over again :)

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james_west 2 years, 6 months ago

the yearly tvd rewatch is so real lol <3 love you Steph

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juancarlos.rolón 2 years, 7 months ago

Gosh i really love these long vlogs and thank you so much for your words on finding friends. I just graduated and a lot in my life is shifting so I just really needed to here that

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victoire_chrétien 2 years, 7 months ago

Omg you described that so perfectly!! I feel like it takes so much out of me to text/email back but I stress about not responding too

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tammy_white 2 years, 7 months ago

that “mid-wear wolf” clip was hilarious to me😅 like it came out of nowhere

keith_davis
keith_davis 2 years, 8 months ago

steph i’m so happy for you being in your new era of life <3 it literally feels like there should be a novel written about ur life. hopefully i can have a cute little apartment in a cute little town someday too :)

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jenniferfoley328 2 years, 8 months ago

the text anxiety thing is sooo real. i always feel so bad for taking too long to reply to even some of my closest friends, but idk why my brain just freaks out over the idea of having a simple conversation through text 😭😭

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robert.maldonado 2 years, 8 months ago

its will be so nice to see how your place looks with the new furniture

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charles_sandoval 2 years, 8 months ago

OMg when you were talking about the UK feeling like home, I felt that in my soul! I also studies abroad in the UK, and this past summer a friend and I explored Scotland - I would move there and live in a second!

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saravista28 2 years, 8 months ago

I think it's great that you're meeting so many new friends! It doesn't surprise me that people reach out to you because of your great personality! Hope you enjoy living in Charleston! It's such a beautiful city! Enjoy your new home!

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lucieadam19 2 years, 8 months ago

just wanted to say that your videos absolutely make my day, i love watching you talk about the struggles that so many girls go through and how your so open. honestly i would happily watch a video of you generally just speaking about anything that come to your mind even if it was hours long

ashleyjames985
ashleyjames985 2 years, 8 months ago

31:20 "sup Arizona huh how you liking the rain girl" Twilight all i heard was twilight 😂

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dawn_horton 2 years, 8 months ago

ngl i kinda love long vlogs, it's like a reality tv episode but less dramatic love your videos!! <3

kristen_brooks
kristen_brooks 2 years, 8 months ago

you are giving me so much hope that my future isn't always going to be so small and lonely as I've kept it this far. ❤

ross_shepherd
ross_shepherd 2 years, 8 months ago

I used to only watch you for book videos and I never knew that I needed vlogs from you. Now I'm obsessed and keep checking if you've posted. Love you and wish you the best! <3<3

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margotgilles432 2 years, 8 months ago

Why did everything hit so hard? The texts, being a new graduate, life in your 20's, trouble making friends.... like I wasn't prepared for that