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Deinfluencing You From Internet Advice That's Ruining Your Relationship | Episode 218

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Hey Inbetweeners, happy Friday! Long time no see. Life really comes at you fast. Murugi recently lost her close uncle and we had to take some time off, which is why we have been away for a bit. Thank you for being patient with us. But we’re back and today’s episode is one you’ll probably want to listen to twice! We’re talking about internet advice that might actually be ruining relationships. Things like “love shouldn’t be hard,” “if you fight you’re incompatible,” and whether being too available in a relationship is really a bad thing. Safe to say...we've got thoughts👀. Sit back, press play, and let us know where you stand on this one. Partner with us: 📩[email protected] 📞+254 743 646 281. Engage us: YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAM TMI Podcast KE - https://instagram.com/tmipodcastke?utm_medium=copy_link Lydia KM - https://instagram.com/_lydiakm?utm_medium=copy_link Murugi Munyi - https://instagram.com/murugi.munyi?utm_medium=copy_link TIKTOK TMI Podcast KE - https://www.tiktok.com/@UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA Lydia KM - https://www.tiktok.com/@UCuuTRxZ1bUjg6daywCC6hPA Murugi Munyi - https://www.tiktok.com/​⁠@UCRfGbRcRH9dcMv6nyGkUfyQ DivaYetty's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divayetty?igsh=MW0wZTk4cW42dDVr

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marguerite_robin 2 weeks, 3 days ago

I would pay to hear the names Lydia whispers to Murugi!!!!😭😂😂😂😂

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olivierdrift98 2 weeks, 4 days ago

21:58 😂😂 not Murugi with the wiyumírírie 😂

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brenocosmos37 2 weeks, 5 days ago

This episode was incredibly substantial, as per usual but I especially felt validated to hear from Lydia that people’s dating strategies work for them simply because they are being themselves🤏🏾 and also as an emotionally available woman I can’t begin to express the shame that we receive for being actively open and willing to express ourselves just cause others lack the capacity to do the same.

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nadiaaether4 2 weeks, 5 days ago

dont play heard to get be hard to replace

agathe_marion
agathe_marion 2 weeks, 6 days ago

Mimi niko hapo kwa distance issue! 5 yrs long distance everything else is perfect,like got married after 2 months mans left for work Tough sana

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charansarna117 2 weeks, 6 days ago

Actually Murugi, yk Biggie had tried to tell the wife to be kind, he had tried to tell the wife they get counseling but from a non religion therapist and she refused, he had said he wanted to leave but he wasn't allowed to, esp by church, so for him wanting to be caught by not locking the conversation with the side chick was his rock bottom. That point of him not having guts to leave applies when it came to clara now

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kristopherhart294 2 weeks, 6 days ago

❤❤❤❤

priya_ghose
priya_ghose 2 weeks, 6 days ago

Hey, fine, babes❤ It's definitely tmi🎉🎉

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laurie.morgan 2 weeks, 6 days ago

Such a great episode. Quality topic, insightful discussion, balanced energy between the two ladies, honest and enjoyable.

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robertvaleon36 3 weeks ago

Vulnerability is sacred for sure ❤

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benitosolorzano76 3 weeks ago

Finallyyy! it's Definitely TMIIII🎉🎉. Sending ❤❤ to you both.

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eshana.modi 3 weeks ago

My exe husband is 48 let's just say maturity and age are mutually exclusive.

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rebecca_anderson 3 weeks ago

What i think we should stop listening to; If they wanted to they would (how many times have you wanted to do sth but didn’t) Sharing with your friends about your partner because they are your ‘girls’ and you want their input Not settling down whenever you want even it’s in your 20s bc “your 20s are for exploration” Posting what your significant other does for you on socials bc if you were truly loved you wouldn’t need to advertise it (controversial, but bring back privacy and safeguarding intimate moments)

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victoria.solano 3 weeks ago

That advice of 'PLAYING HEARD TO GET WILL MAKE THEM WANT TO GET YOU MORE' plus that one of 'IF YOU MAKE YOURSELF TOO AVAILABLE, THEY WON'T VALUE YOU' is very debatable. Naturally i am that person in all kinds of relationships be it family, friends and even with my romantic partner. And its something my man treasures, he says that he likes that i am too available and very flexible, in fact he makes my life easier so i can be too available. Bottom line, we need to understand our partners and also we need to be ourselves because someone out there will love us the way we are.

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michelle.ortega 3 weeks ago

Finally an episode 😍 I was having withdrawals you guys 😭 shaking and all 😂

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sherrybaker792 3 weeks ago

This was real adult talk/advice....so much wisdom, love you ladies

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rosaaltamirano467 3 weeks ago

Ooh to have tmi ❤ to change your pov

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martin_hayes 3 weeks ago

Def tunning TMI while cooking dinner. My therapy sessions

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pietrawhisper21 3 weeks ago

Finally 😊

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colleen_woodard 3 weeks ago

Hey guys,I just love it when it's always 1 hr ➕😍